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Sunday, 17 August 2025

A photo every day for a year! 10th - 16th August! Week 33 of #Project365

I hope you are all having a good weekend! Mine has felt non-stop. I went to my dad's Friday and he made me lunch, I went for a look around the car boot sale, spent some time with my brother, caught up on the housework and wrapped some birthday presents.

Yesterday was Stu's birthday and the first Saturday of the Premier League so we combined to the two events and went for a meal out while watching the football which was being shown on big TV's at the pub. After the match had finished we played some pool and hung out for a bit. We came home around tea time, got snacks on the way and spent the evening in front of the TV. Stu was happy with his day, he isn't big on celebrating birthdays but there were presents, cards, good food and of course cake! It was a nice family day which we all enjoyed.

After a busy few days I am ready for today, a day of doing not much at all! Stu and I did have plans but Ellie changed her plans and we now have her company. I think it's going to be a movie day, I am sure we can find something to watch that we can all agree on.

Today marks 16 years since Becky, my eldest had open heart surgery to fix a hole in her heart and tomorrow marks 16 years since Ellie had the same surgery to fix the same problem. Yep, it really did happen and it was the scariest, most stressful part of my life, they are fit and well now. I have a blog post about it next week, like I do every year raising a bit of awareness.

Now for a photo every day!

Just me
Birthday decorations and Sims 4
Banana loaf and Thor's hammer tool kit
Newcastle Brown Ale tin and Football at the pub

222/365 - 10th August
Just me. It got to just before I went to bed when I realised I hadn't taken a photo. This one will have to do.

223/365 - 11th August
Ellie's birthday decorations were delivered! I was very happy with everything. She hasn't seen them yet so is going to be very surprised. Less than 2 weeks to go until her 18th!

224/365 - 12th August
I got all my jobs done around the house early and actually fitted in some time to play the Sims on the afternoon.

225/365 - 13th August
Banana loaf! My dad was given a couple and had one going spare so he brought it round for us to enjoy! It was so good and reminded me so much of the banana muffins that my great aunt used to make.

226/365 - 14th August
Stu's main birthday present! The Thor hammer which is actually a tool kit! A bit of a novelty one and a practical one. (He is so hard to buy for). I really shouldn't have bought it so early in our shopping trip as I had to carry it around all afternoon.

227/365 - 15th August
Just a random Newcastle Brown Ale tin. We of course love anything Newcastle related since we used to live near there and it's not often we see things Newcastle related where we live now but I found this at the car boot sale.

228/365 - 16th August
It was Stu's birthday. We watched the football, it ended in a draw but it was a nice afternoon with football, food and family.

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Saturday, 16 August 2025

This week my Word of the Week is: Presents! #WotW

This week my Word of the Week is:

Presents

Up until Thursday I had a really quiet week, just pottering around the house trying to stay cool. It has been a bit of a scorcher again. I have been complaining about the heat a lot! I am so glad I could stay inside on Wednesday, the hottest day of the week. My dad called in and told me his rather unique way to cool down. He had got into the shower with his clothes still on and then went outside to let them dry naturally. I thought he’d lost the plot for a moment but apparently it’s scientifically proven to work because the evaporation of water from the wet clothes draws heat away from your body. He swears by it but I think I’ll stick to my trusty fan and ice lollies for now. lol

I mentioned how this week is the start of birthday season in my house. It’s like Christmas but spread out over a few weeks with presents, cards and of course birthday cake! It was also birthday time outside of my house too. Ellie went off birthday present shopping for her friends mam at the start of the week. She bought her a lovely gift and card.

I got a the delivery of decorations for Ellie's birthday early on in the week and was very happy with everything that came including my three outfits that I mistakenly bought, I had meant to remove two after I got Ellie's opinion but forgot. I love all of them and of course will share photos when I get around to wearing them. Turns out the one I had meant to keep is perfect for Ellie's birthday meal, another would be great for a night out, out in town and the third is more of a casual one which I can wear anytime when I want to dress up a little. I'm talking like I have plenty of nights out but I really don't. I think the last time I was out on an evening was at the start of May.

On Thursday Ellie, her friend and me went into town to shop for more presents and cards this time for Stu's birthday and Ellie's friend wanted another mam's opinion on presents for his mam. It was nice to be helpful and some fantastic presents were bought for the other mam.

Stu has everything he wants and needs so it makes it hard to buy him presents. I went with a novelty/practical gift. The Marvel Avengers Thor Hammer Tool Kit! It’s an actual toolkit disguised as Thor’s hammer and honestly it felt about as heavy as the real thing when I was lugging it around town. I also got him a couple of t-shirts, some Funko Pop's to add to his collection and of course some chocolate because no birthday is complete without a sweet treat.

While I was in town I picked up a few more presents for the girls, mostly Becky as Ellie has more than enough. I got Becky a Billie Eilish t-shirt, just from Primark as she had pointed it out a few weeks ago. When she came in that evening she had the same t-shirt on, Ugh! She has bought it herself last week and forgot to tell me. I keep saying it was so much easier to buy the girls presents when they were little as I knew what they had and they wouldn't go off buying themselves things. lol

It’s actually Stu’s birthday today so the celebrations are in full swing. I’ll be back tomorrow with my Project 365 post and to share how it all went and what we got up to.

How has your week been? I hope you have had a good one! I am of course linking up with Anne who blogs at Raisie Bay for her Word of the Week linky!

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Friday, 15 August 2025

What I have loved this week! Week 33. #FridayFavourites

This week has been a really quiet week with not much going on and I was struggling to come up with things that I have loved this week, especially since all the excitement for the week was happening yesterday, today and over the weekend. I have decided to share the tiny, ordinary things which have been bringing a smile to my face. I am of course linking up with Erika and Andrea to share.

What I have loved this week

Evening cups of tea!
Every evening about 8pm my youngest puts the kettle on and my fella makes us all a lovely cup of tea. There's nothing fancy about it, just Yorkshire teabags, two sugars and just the right amount of milk. It is routine now and part of our lives.

Noticing signs of the next season!
Even though it’s still summer, I’ve started spotting the early hints of autumn. Stormy weather at the start of the week, chilly mornings, brambles on the hedges and that certain smell in the air. It makes excited for cosy jumpers, candles and soup.

Fresh bedding night!
I am convinced that I sleep better after I have changed the bedding and during the week after having a late shower and putting fresh clean pj's on it felt amazing!

A free £5 note!
I pulled a jacket that I haven't worn in ages and found a fiver in the pocket. I don't often use cash, I tend to pay for everything with my bank card so it felt like winning a very small lottery.

Supermarket treats!
I went in for milk, got that and also came out with a couple of chocolate eclairs. Did I need them? No. Did I regret it? Not at all.

Time in the kitchen!
A couple of evenings this week I was cooking tea in the kitchen and the rest of my family joined me. We've chatted about our day, laughed, sung along to the radio and just had some lovely moments.

A cheeky biscuit or two (or four)!
We had a packet of biscuits in the cupboard that I’d forgotten about by which I mean I’d hidden them from the rest of the family and then forgot about them, they didn't last long.

Comfort TV!
Some weeks I want plot twists and edge of my seat drama. Other weeks I just want to watch something I've already seen 20 times. Gavin & Stacey was my pick this week.

Getting all of the washing done!
It doesn't happen often but on Saturday I emptied the washing baskets, got everything washed, dried and put away! I made more work for myself by washing the bath mats, blankets out of the living room but I stopped myself before I started washing the cushion covers, that would have been taking things too far.

Fizzy cola!
I don't drink fizzy pop often but when I do I really enjoy it! I had a freezing cold can of Coke which really hit the spot after being out in the heat.

What have you loved over the past week?

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Thursday, 14 August 2025

Afternoon Tea at home: A step by step guide!

Did you know here in England this week is Afternoon Tea Week? It is a dedicated time to honour and enjoy the tradition of afternoon tea which originated in England in the 1840s when Anna, the 7th Duchess of Bedford complained of having that sinking feeling in the late afternoon (I can relate). She started drinking tea and having a light snack at around 4pm and before long the idea caught on among her society friends. Now afternoon tea is a beloved tradition across the UK but now it's often more of a treat for weekends, birthdays or special occasions.

Afternoon tea in a garden

There’s something very British about afternoon tea. When I think of them I think of dainty sandwiches, scones piled high with jam and clotted cream, delicate cakes and of course a good strong brew in a proper teapot. Whether you're planning a special birthday celebration, treating your friends or just indulging in a little luxury at home, putting together the perfect afternoon tea is fun and easier than you might think.

Step one: The Setting!
You don’t need a grand manor house to make afternoon tea feel special, a few thoughtful touches go a long way. Here are some ways to create a beautiful tea setting:

Use your best crockery.
This is the time to dig out those floral teacups, tiered cake stands, and matching plates. Mismatched vintage china also looks charming, so don’t worry if your set isn’t complete.

Add fresh flowers.
A small vase of fresh blooms even supermarket tulips or a handful from the garden adds a lovely touch to your table. Bonus points if you’ve got a tablecloth or some lace doilies.

Soft background music.
A gentle playlist with classical music or vintage jazz helps create a relaxed, elegant atmosphere. Think of it as the soundtrack to your tea party.

Step Two: The Tea!

A teapot and mugs

Tea is the star of the show so choose a good quality blend. Here's how to get it just right:

Classic black tea.
Earl Grey, Darjeeling or a strong English Breakfast blend are all perfect choices. Loose leaf tea is ideal, but good quality tea bags work just fine too.

Herbal alternatives.
Not everyone loves a builder’s brew. Peppermint, chamomile or fruity blends are especially nice in summer months.

Use freshly boiled water and let the tea steep for around 3 to 5 minutes depending on the blend. Serve with milk, lemon slices, sugar cubes or honey. Don’t forget the teapot! It just doesn’t feel like afternoon tea if you're using mugs and a kettle.

Step Three: The Savoury Selection!
Contrary to popular belief afternoon tea isn’t all about sugar. Start with something savoury to balance the sweetness that’s coming.

Afternoon tea sandwiches

Finger sandwiches.
You can’t go wrong with these traditional fillings:

Cucumber with a little cream cheese.
Egg and cress.
Smoked salmon and dill.
Coronation chicken (a classic!).
Ham and mustard.

Trim the crusts, cut them into fingers or little triangles and arrange them neatly on your stand. If you want to elevate things a bit, add mini quiches, sausage rolls or cheese scones with chutney. These give your spread a bit more substance, especially if you’re skipping lunch.

Step Four: The Scones!
No afternoon tea is complete without freshly baked scones. If you’ve got time, make your own, they’re surprisingly easy and taste incredible warm from the oven.

Scones with jam and cream

A basic scone recipe:
There’s nothing quite like a warm scone fresh from the oven! This easy recipe makes about 8 fluffy scones, ideal for slathering with jam and a dollop of cream.

Ingredients:
225g self-raising flour
55g butter (cold and cubed)
25g caster sugar
150ml milk
Pinch of salt
Extra flour for dusting
A little milk for brushing the tops

Method:
Preheat your oven to 220°C (200°C fan) / Gas 7.
Rub the butter into the flour and salt with your fingertips until it looks like breadcrumbs.
Stir in the sugar.
Add the milk gradually, mixing to form a soft dough.
Turn out onto a floured surface and gently knead just enough to bring it together.
Roll out to about 2cm thick and use a round cutter to cut out scones.
Place on a baking tray, brush the tops with milk, and bake for 10 to 12 minutes until golden and risen.
Cool slightly, then serve warm with jam and cream.

Jam or cream first?
This is an age old debate. In Devon it’s cream first, then jam. In Cornwall, it’s jam first, then cream. My solution is to try both and see what you prefer! Just make sure you're using proper clotted cream.

Step Five: Sweet Treats to Finish!
Now for the fun part: cakes and pastries. You don’t need to bake everything from scratch shop bought is absolutely fine.

Afternoon tea cakes

Mini Victoria sponges.
Classic, light, and filled with jam and buttercream! Very British.

Lemon drizzle slices.
Zingy, sweet and always a crowd pleaser.

Chocolate brownies or tiffin.
For the chocoholics among us. These are rich enough that a small square goes a long way.

Macarons or eclairs.
If you’re feeling fancy, these add a continental flair and look gorgeous on a tiered stand.

Step Six: Finishing Touches!
The little details can take your afternoon tea from lovely to unforgettable.

Printed menus.
Pop a little printed or handwritten menu at each place setting so guests know what’s on offer. It feels very professional and thoughtful.

Personal touches.
Add place cards, napkin rings, or even little party favours like a mini jar of jam or a teabag to take home.

A Fizzy Twist.
Want to go bougie? Add a glass of bubbly prosecco or champagne. or if you’re looking for a non-alcoholic alternative elderflower juice in a flute glass feels just as fancy.

Afternoon Tea for Kids or Teens!
Make it fun sized! Swap out classic fillings for kid friendly ones (think jam, Nutella or cheese) and include treats like fairy cakes, chocolate buttons or biscuits. Serve milk or squash in teacups, and they’ll love the novelty.

Make it Seasonal!
Tailor your afternoon tea to the season:

Spring: Add edible flowers or floral teas.
Summer: Go picnic style with iced tea, strawberries and light pastries.
Autumn: Include apple slices, cinnamon bakes or pumpkin scones.
Winter: Think mince pies, spiced tea and a few festive treats like gingerbread men.

I love an afternoon tea and there's something special about putting one together! So pop the kettle on, grab your favourite china and treat yourself and your guests to a proper afternoon tea.

What is your favourite thing about an afternoon tea?

Wednesday, 13 August 2025

Watching my youngest grow up one job application at a time!

Job hunting in 2025 is not for the faint hearted and for teenagers it’s an entire minefield of baffling terminology, wildly complicated portals and multiple choice questions that feel like they were written by a robot having a breakdown! Stu has been looking for a new job as he hates the one he is currently in with unrealistic sales targets and long hours but he's not the only one job hunting, my youngest is too!

My youngest daughter

Ellie has been applying for jobs. She’s venturing into the grown up world of interviews, cover letters lots and lots of emails back saying thank you for applying but you haven't been successful this time. I imagined this would be a sweet little milestone. I pictured us sitting at the dining room table, me gently helping her create a CV, going through job applications, it being a bonding experience and what I got was her flinging a cushion across the room and lots of sighing and eye rolling. lol

Her CV started as a blank Word document and a lot of sighing. We argued about what font to use, I recommended Arial or Calibri, she wanted something fun and cool looking. I said we should use more traditional language instead of saying Hi! I’m looking for a job and I’m quite nice, please hire me for her personal statement. We went with things like she has good time management, great at working in a team and has a good level of communication. We listed her GCSEs even though she grumbled that no one actually cares if she got a 5 in photography. I assured her that they do and if they don’t, we’re putting it on anyway! It turns out when you’re seventeen and have spent the last few years being told not to exaggerate or brag suddenly having to sell yourself causes a bit of a brain meltdown.

Work experience? Well, that got creative. She became a teenager in at the start of Covid so didn't have much chance to gain work experience. We went with that she has worked at my dad's business. She has but it was more fun than working. She assisted with various maintenance tasks, including interior and exterior painting, carried out regular garden upkeep such as lawn mowing and basic landscaping and provided refreshments to support team wellbeing. (making cups of tea. lol)

Once the CV was perfect we moved onto cover letters. She drafted her first one like she was writing a note to her friends which is not quite what the HR manager at the Co-op is looking for. (She hasn't applied to the Co-Op by the way) After many rewrites and at least three near breakdowns from her and me we settled on a version that struck the right balance between confident and not unhinged.

After almost three hours crafting her CV and cover letters I naively thought the application process was basically done. Nope, not even close because after uploading the CV the same CV that already contains her education and work history the application forms want all the information again! Ugh! Why even bother with a CV! There were so many dropdown menus and none of them made sense. An application form wanted to know if she was Miss, Mrs, Ms, Dr, or Reverend. Why do they even need to know? They could just be being sexist she said and I thought that was fair enough. The title options are unnecessarily complicated, especially when you’re 17 and the most official thing you’ve ever filled in is a Subway loyalty card. Why does it matter what she calls herself? She went with Ms in case you were wondering. Then came the relationship status section. Why did it matter, she eventually settled on single and took offence to that as she isn't single, she is in a relationship.

The skills section wanted her to tick boxes. Customer service? Yes, if you count helping a confused find a shop he wanted. Good Communication? Sure she can argue in group chats like a pro and teamwork, she didn’t even hesitate. She can play in a Fortnite squad like a professional gamer all while playing in a team! Then came the killer question are you willing to relocate for this role? The job was a bus ride away. lol I don't think relocation is needed.

The diversity monitoring section was interesting. What do I put for ethnicity? Am I White British or am I legally allowed to pick 'prefer not to say' or is that suspicious and in the disability section she forgot that she is partly deaf which was important as in one job she applied for the people are known for wearing headsets when on the shop floor which would be hard for Ellie being deaf in one ear. There was the work preferences section which was a minefield of boxes about full time/part time, weekends, bank holidays, shifts, evenings, mornings and nights. She ticked them all and I convinced her that they wouldn't throw her application out if she doesn't pick everything. She went mostly with evenings and weekends.

We’ve now filled in approximately 872 forms, invented three new words for enthusiastic and answered enough questions about hypothetical workplace scenarios to qualify for a psychology degree. Ellie refreshes her email no fewer than 17 times an hour just to see if she's heard anything back. We’ve celebrated every “Thank you for your application” message and don’t even mention the rejection emails they get dramatically read aloud like tragic break up letters from someone she barely knew.

Each application has got a little easier, a little quicker and a lot less ragey. She’s putting herself out there. She’s learning the weird world of job hunting and even if she doesn't land a job until the 1000th application she’s already halfway to being more employable than most of us were at her age.

As of writing this she has had a job interview for a volunteering role and another one for paid work and we are still waiting to hear back about the paid role.

When did you last apply for a job? Did you find it stressful filling in all of the forms?

Tuesday, 12 August 2025

Share our Lives: How do you take a break?

It's time for me to share some of my life, linking up and joining in with the Share Our Lives bloggers! This months prompt to talk about is: How do you take a break?

Have a break

Once in a while I feel like I need a break. I just need to hide from the world for a little while. Maybe something stressful has been going on or I have been extra busy and I just want to bury my head in the sand for a few hours or a day. I don’t mean anything dramatic just a breather, a time where I don't really have to do anything and can hide from the world.

The first rule of taking a proper break in my book is to retreat. I don’t mean to a glamorous countryside retreat with a spa, I mean hiding away in my home like a full blown house goblin. I hide and don’t feel bad about it either. I genuinely love people but I also find them exhausting, even the lovely ones. I am a bit of an introvert so people wear my social battery out. I close the curtains, put my phone on do not disturb and ignore messages. The world carries on spinning outside but I want absolutely no part of it. 

I don’t cook. I might graze on a picky plate of snacks or reheat something. Sometimes I won't even eat a proper meal, I will have some fruit and a packet of crisps. I wear soft clothes, probably slightly mismatched and definitely not fit for public viewing. I might light a candle and I let the house look a bit messy because I’m off duty. Sometimes I hole up in the bedroom with snacks and a blanket. Other times it’s the living room but with one strict rule: no one else allowed unless they bring chocolate or a cup of tea!

There is something comforting about a cup of tea. The one's that aren't rushed, I mean the good kind, the steaming hot, perfectly brewed kind. Made in a proper teapot if I’m feeling fancy or just in my favourite mug that’s older than some of my clothes.

When I take a break I don’t want anything new or unpredictable so I stick to my favourite TV shows which I have seen again and again. I don’t want intense plot twists or cliff hangers that leave me more anxious than when I started. I want comfort TV. Friends, Gavin and Stacey, The Vicar Of Dibley or The Gilmore Girls. I laugh at the same jokes, still gasp at the same plot twists and maybe shed a tear even though I know exactly how it ends. 

I know it sounds a bit odd, but sometimes I escape by simply pottering. Nothing big or urgent, just doing small, mindless things like sorting through a drawer, reorganising a shelf or watering the plants in the garden. There’s something good and calming about moving slowly but makes me feel like I'm being productive.

If I really want to switch off, I’ll run a bath, the kind with bubbles or bath salts and maybe a candle flickering. I will listen to music and the warm water helps my muscles relax and quiets the noise in my head. It’s like a mini retreat in my own bathroom.

The key to taking a proper break, one that actually works, is ditching the guilt. It’s not lazy to rest. It’s not selfish to take time for yourself and if I want to hide away in my own home and not speak to anyone for a while that’s perfectly okay! It’s amazing how much better I feel after a little hibernation.

How do you like to take a break?

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I am linking up with:

Adrienne from Mom Life with Adrienne.
Dara from Not In Jersey.
Joanne from Slices of Life.
Sarah from Toronto Sam.

Monday, 11 August 2025

Our weekly meal plan! 11th - 17th August! #MealPlanningMonday

Our weekly meal plan

Last weeks meal plan went well. We ate everything I had planned but I did swap a couple of days around. On Monday we ended up having Bacon Grill, mushrooms, tomatoes and toast. It had felt like we had a busy day with the power being off due to a power cut and getting lots of jobs done around the house so I wanted something easy to make. Our favourite meal of the week was the Chicken Katsu Salad With Curried Coconut Croutons which at first my family couldn't get their head around the idea of as they always have chicken katsu with rice but it tasted so good and it had cucumber on which I added as an extra which I grew myself in the garden! Go me. lol Our help ourselves evening was changed from Friday to Thursday and we helped ourselves to an Indian takeaway. hehehe

This week we have another Gousto box and a new recipe to try, Pork & Beef Bolognese Bean Bowl With Garlic Ciabatta which in hindsight feels like it should be more of an Autumn meal with it looking so hearty. In my defence I ordered it last week without looking at the weather forecast for this week. It's supposed to be quite warm again with lots of sunshine. It is Stu's birthday at the weekend and we sort of have plans but nothing set in stone yet. He hates us planning anything for him so we have to come up with something closer to his special day and just tell him what we're doing, I have a few things in mind. He doesn't like us making a fuss but it's a birthday and fuss has to be made! hehehe

On the menu this week we have:

Monday - Gousto meal Sweet 'N' Smoky BBQ Chicken Fajitas.
Tuesday - Gousto meal - Creamy Sausage & Red Onion Tart.
Wednesday - Gousto meal - Pork & Beef Bolognese Bean Bowl With Garlic Ciabatta.
Thursday - A help yourself evening as Ellie and I have plans.
Friday - Scampi, chips and peas.
Saturday - Takeaway or a meal out for Stu's birthday, we're not sure of our plans yet.
Sunday - A roast dinner of some sort.

What are you eating this week?

Sunday, 10 August 2025

A photo every day for a year! 3rd - 9th August! Week 32 of #Project365

I've had a good week, being busy but not anything really exciting. It has been a bit of a mismash of a week with electrical difficulties, job hunting for Stu, a day spent with Becky, just pottering about the house and telling everyone who'll listen about my giant cucumber. lol

We have had a quiet weekend as next weeks see's the start of birthday season in our house, Stu's and the girls birthdays are all in the space of 25 days. Eek! I think we are just about all sorted for them though, I do need to buy some cards during the week and then we just have to enjoy celebrating.

Now for a photo every day!

Buffy the Vampire slayer and my giant cucumber
Iced fruit cake
Sunflower and my youngest gaming
Vacuum and job advertisement

215/365 - 3rd August
I was watching Buffy The Vampire Slayer on Sunday, just some of my favourite episodes and The Gentlemen with never not give the me the creeps! That whole episode Hush is scary as most of it has no talking, just suspenseful music playing.

216/365 - 4th August
My giant cucumber, grown from a seed and it tasted delicious! I picked it later on in the week, sort of in a panic that it might go bad being almost on the ground. You can see a photo of it sliced on my Friday post, we ate it with a salad we had for tea.

217/365 - 5th August
Iced Rich Fruit Cake and in a couple of months it will be repackaged, a couple of pounds added to the price and will be called Christmas cake. lol I still love the stuff.

218/365 - 6th August
Just a sunflower in my garden on a sunny day! Hasn't the weather been nice over the last couple of days. It feels like summer has returned again. I can't even measure the tallest sunflower in my garden anymore as it's too tall and I can't reach. I might have to get Becky to measure it as she has longer arms than me.

219/365 - 7th August
It was a bit rainy, I had to run and shut all the bedroom windows as the rain was coming in. Ellie had a day at home and there were no limits on screen time. She spent the afternoon gaming with friends.

220/365 - 8th August
I had to look twice at my dad's vacuum, it looked like a Henry Hoover but was called Numatic. It turns out Numatic and Henry are related. hahaha Numatic is the company who makes the Henry vacuums. I did not know that until Friday. You learn something new every day!

221/365 - 9th August
While looking for jobs for Stu I found my dream job, a dream as in it's never going to happen. A UK wrestling promotion is looking for all the staff! I would love to be a wrestling commentator and could be quite good at it, I always have a lot to say when watching it on TV. So for those who think anything Wrestling doesn't pay and is a fake career the jobs are on the Indeed website. lol

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Saturday, 9 August 2025

This week my Word of the Week is: Mishmash!! #WotW

This week my Word of the Week is:

Mishmash

I have had a really, really quiet week and it has been a bit of a mishmash with technical difficulties, life admin and everyday moments that somehow all blended together. There hasn't been any grand adventures or wild plans but it was definitely not boring either!

Early on in the week we had some technical difficulties with some electronics. We had a power cut on Sunday which lasted 10 seconds which was enough to switch everything off but it all came straight back on within seconds. Between then and Monday afternoon some electronics weren't working how they should. It was like when your phone does an update and everything is the same but slightly different. I spent hours looking at how to fix it, tried everything and eventually gave up as I thought that was it, we'd have to live with it acting differently. It turns out all it needed was another power cut on Monday afternoon which lasted a couple of hours to fix it, it has worked perfectly since. Phew! What a relief. All it needed was another power surge.

I have been sorting out Ellie's Child Trust Fund that she can have access to when she turns 18. (There are only 21 days and yes she is counting down. lol) She has done well with it and there is more in it than we thought there would be. It's one of those things we have just left for 18 years and it has grown. There is a considerable amount which she is planning to put in her savings account and just let it sit and gain interest because as things stand now she is so close to having a paid part time job and that will do for her spending money. She got a phone call during the week inviting her for an interview and from what we have gathered from speaking to people most people who are interviewed with the company get a job. If that doesn't work out she still has the volunteer job to fall back on and will still keep her money in her savings as she won't be spending money to get there as they cover her bus fares and supply her with drinks and snacks while she is working.

On Tuesday I had Becky at home all day which was lovely, she usually has plans so it was a nice change to have her to myself. I did the housework, she slept until almost lunch time and then she decided to order in for lunch from Taco Bell and I was so proud of myself. I am not a big fan of it but usually I would get something with her just so I didn't have to make anything myself but this time I said no thank you and made my own lunch. She enjoyed the food and did give me one of her churros. We spent the rest of the afternoon just watching TV and randomly sending each other TikToks. Ellie was supposed to be home but she made plans with friends. It's the last long summer she will have in education so I am letting her make the most of it even if that means seeing less of her.

I did a little shop on Shein during the week for birthday decorations for Ellie, I would have shopped from somewhere like Card Factory or the supermarkets but they were so much cheaper from Shein. I only went on for a few banners and balloons and came away with a birthday sash saying "18 today" which she will be wearing on her birthday and when she has her first proper night out with friends. lol, hanging streamers, giant 18 balloons and a cake topper. I picked out a few new dresses for me, everyone else has new clothes for Ellie's meal out so I thought I would treat myself. I was meaning to get Ellie's opinion on the three and remove two but forgot, oops. They are all being delivered, I am sure I will find somewhere else to wear the dresses.

Yesterday I spent most of the day at my dad's usually I have at least one of the girls with me but one was sleeping for work, the other was busy so it was just me and it was lovely to spend some one on one time with my dad. He was so chuffed with his latest find, an apple tree. It was right down one of his fields, he reckons with the height of it and how many apples it already has on it has been there for years but never noticed it even though he passes by it all of the time. It is going to give some great apples in a couple of months as long as we can get past the bramble bushes.

So that's the excitement from my week, not very exciting really but some weeks are like that. How has your week been? I hope you have had a good one! I am of course linking up with Anne who blogs at Raisie Bay for her Word of the Week linky!

Word of the Week

Friday, 8 August 2025

What I have loved this week! Week 32. #FridayFavourites

I have had a really quiet week, I've hardly left the house for no reason apart from I've had nowhere to really go and my family have all been busy doing their own thing. It hasn't been a bad thing, it has been nice to stay home and just potter around. I am of course linking up with Erika and Andrea to share the things that I have loved over this past week.

What I have loved this week

Another job interview for my youngest!
We've decided jobs are like buses, nothing for ages and then two come along at once. lol A few weeks ago I mentioned how my youngest Ellie was struggling to get a part time job to work around college, she's been applying for everything suitable since. She has had the interview for the volunteer role at a charity and it went well and this week she had a phone call inviting her for an interview for paid work. It is a no brainer that she is going to go for the paid work if the job is offered. She of course feels bad if she has to turn down the volunteer position but like she said kindness doesn't pay the bills. Of course at the moment she has no bills to pay but she has a life to pay for. Hanging out with friends, make up, clothes, trips to the cinema and all those teenage things. It is a very exciting time for my girl.

A power cut!
The power going off wasn't a favourite but we had a fun time when it was off. Ellie went through all of her clothes in her bedroom and sorted them out, I did the same too and even paired a basket full of socks we usually just rummage though to find a pair. My fella had a tidy in the garage and we just had lots of giggles and fun. Ellie started hinting that if the power was still off at tea time we should get a takeaway or even go to the pub for tea. She didn't think that one through, the local takeaways and pub had no power either. Thankfully it was only off a couple of hours, we were lucky.

Flowers!

Flowers in my garden

All the rain we had over the weekend really brought out the flowers in my garden! There is so much colour now and of course weeds, I have just about given up weeding, I think if I had pulled some last week they might have actually have been the flowers which bloomed this week so now I am not taking the risk. lol

Mooching around a car boot sale.
There was one locally. People set up their tables to sell their second hand goods and we had a good rummage. I love seeing what people are selling. One man's junk is another man's treasure as they say and I was quite good and didn't buy everything that I wanted to. There was a stall selling crystals and jewellery and my youngest wanted quite a few things so I am hoping they are back next time and I can pick a few up for her birthday as a surprise.

Lots of Wrestling!
Four evenings on the trot I watched the WWE. I always watch the shows the day after they are shown as they usually start so late with the time difference between the US and England. For me this week has gone Saturday Smackdown, Sunday Summerslam, Monday Summerslam and then Tuesday Raw. There was an 11pm start on Saturday night so I watched the first match before dragging myself away and then on Sunday night I went to bed before 11pm just so I wouldn't stay up and end up watching it all until the early hours of the morning. I have no self control. lol

A picked cucumber!

The cucumber I grew in my garden

My cucumber that was growing in the garden practically tripled in size over the last few weeks and I was starting to panic that it might go bad out there. I Googled when cucumbers are good to pick and it looked good so I picked it, gave it a wash and sliced it! It was fantastic and we had salad that night so of course I added some to that.

Wednesday!
While attending Nevermore Academy, Wednesday Addams attempts to master her emerging psychic ability, thwart a killing spree and solve the mystery that embroiled her parents 25 years ago. The second season is now on Netflix. I do love the show. I love Steve Buscemi in it as the new principal, was surprised with Billie Pipers American accent and I was also surprised to see Joanna Lumley in it. I finished the episodes and now have to wait until next month for the rest. Hmmf.

A taste of Autumn.
We are in the middle of summer but we have had a couple of grey and damp days and they felt very Autumnal. I almost thought about lighting one of my Pumpkin Spice scented candles. I have noticed it getting darker earlier on an evening and Ellie tells me they have started stocking all things Autumn in a couple of shops which we like. We are going to go to town next week and have a look and see what there is.

What have you loved over the past week?

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Thursday, 7 August 2025

My top 10 summer essentials!

Every year I tell myself I don’t need to buy more stuff for summer but then the sun comes out and suddenly I’m like, wait I need that amazing bottle and those sandals and probably another fan because last year’s one mysteriously disappeared. So here's my top 10 summer essentials I honestly can’t live without!

Sunglasses on the beach

A refillable water bottle that actually keeps things cold!
I used to think all water bottles were created equally but then got an insulated one that keeps your drink cold for hours even if it's roasting outside. It was a game changer and the silly thing was it was only a few pounds of Temu! Not only does it save money and the planet but having cold water on hand means I’m less likely to reach for sugary drinks all day.

A playlist full of Summer anthems!
Summer isn’t summer without a soundtrack! The minute the sun peeks out, I’m queuing up a playlist full of 90s and 2000s bangers and cheesy party tracks.

Dry shampoo!
The sun does strange things to my hair, it's nothing at all to do with me dying it, hehehe It goes all dry, flat at the roots and frizzy at the ends so dry shampoo becomes my best friend. It adds volume, freshens up sweaty roots and makes me feel just a little bit more polished when I’ve been too busy to deal with my hair properly!

Slip on sandals!
Who has time for buckles? There comes a point every year where my toes want freedom and my ankles want air. Last year I had the comfiest pair but I went to wear them a few months ago and they're now to big so I pinched a pair off Ellie which I gave here when they were too small last year. I have a few pairs now. One for every day wear, a pair for going out, out and one pair designated just for garden and bin duty.

Iced coffee!
I need my coffee fix but I am not keen on drinking hot drinks when it is warm even though my dad swears that they cool you down. I make my own but when I’m being lazy the ones from the shop do the trick. I am loving this Galaxy Mocha Frappe at the moment, you just add ice and milk!

Galaxy Mocha Frappe

Tinted moisturiser with SPF!
I ditch foundation in the summer as it just melts off anyway. Instead I go for a tinted moisturiser with SPF built in. A little bit of glow, a little bit of coverage and sun protection in one product.

Ice Lollies!
I have ice lollies in the freezer all year round but I make sure to keep the drawer stocked up at this time of year. Rocket lollies, Fab's, Mini Milks, posh fruity ones which only I am allowed to eat and of course Cornetto ice cream ones but to be honest I’m not fussy when it comes to icy treats.

A collection of no cook meal ideas!
I love cooking until it’s 30C in my kitchen and turning on the oven feels like entering the seventh circle of hell. That’s when I rely on my no cook meal list of picky plates, wraps, salads and sandwiches stuffed with leftovers and whatever’s in the fridge. Anything that doesn’t involve sweat or washing up is a win in my books!

Sunglasses!
You know those people who wear sunglasses as a headband, that is me! I always leave the house with them. I had a favourite pair which I've used for the last couple of years and then I lost them so I bought a cheap set from Primark and lost them too, bought another 2 pairs and obviously now I've found them all. It's a good job all the one's I have are slightly different! I couldn't be without sunglasses when the sun is out! I hate brightness in my eyes!

Frozen grapes!
I saved the best for last. If you’ve never tried frozen grapes in summer you’re missing a trick. Pop a bag in the freezer and thank me later. They’re like mini sorbets. Sweet, icy and ridiculously satisfying. Great for snacking, topping up a glass of wine to keep it chilled.

What are your summer essentials?