Saturday, 4 April 2026

This week my Word of the Week is: Tattoo!! #WotW

This week my Word of the Week is:

Tatoo

Remember at the start of the year when I wrote a blog post all about Ellie getting her tattoo, how I didn't really approve of or like tattoos. I take it all back.

It all started on Friday evening. Becky's "friend" was talking about a tattoo she was getting this week. She was booked in to get, I think her 7th. Becky started saying she wanted to get one and would if I would. Becky had already come up with her tattoo idea months ago, a simple duck. She is crazy about ducks, so for her it doesn't seem that mad. It sounded like a good idea at the time and I didn't think much else about it until Sunday. I was in two minds about it. A tattoo is so permanent.

I thought about getting a Harry Potter one or a Wrestling related one but I wanted something more personal and with the help of Google Gemini AI, I came up with this.

1st tattoo idea

I wanted something which meant something to me and the heart beat lines made me think of what my girls went through with their heart defects but it still wasn't right. I still wasn't convinced about the tattoo and forgot about the idea. I left it and then on Tuesday morning I had a clever idea. One heart was pretty but I wanted two hearts, one for each of my girls. I went back to Gemini and had it changed in a couple of minutes. This was perfect and exactly what I wanted but still wasn't 100% I would go through with the tattoo. I didn't even know if they could fit us in.

2nd tattoo idea

Becky and I were there before Becky's "friend" and her friends Nanna who was also getting a tattoo and as I know the tattoo people, I went in for a chat and asked about if they could do a tattoo for Becky and me and how much they would cost. I think we got a bargain price and surprisingly, the nerves didn't kick in. The designs were printed out, consent forms were signed and we were good to go!

The person doing the tattoo was so lovely, she was chatty and really put me at ease. She is just one of those people who has a calming personality. I joked and said I could do with one of her to follow me around in life to keep me from stressing about everything. I chose to go first, as I think if I saw anyone else get a tattoo that day I would have chickened out.

I didn't know what to expect with the pain from a tattoo but what I felt was not what I expected. I imagined lots of pin pricks but it felt more like someone scraping something sharp on my wrist. Like a cat scratching you but more than just one scratch. It was done in about 5 minutes. It took longer for the cleaning before and after. 

My first tattoo

I expected a lot of pain afterwards but there has been none. I have been putting the aftercare cream on 3 times a day, it's nothing fancy, it's just the Palmer's Cocoa Butter Formula that the tattooist recommended.

Becky was panicking when it came to her time to get her tattoo but she went through with it and didn't chicken out like I thought she was going to do. She was surprised about the pain, or lack of it. 

Becky's duck tattoo

I know getting yourself permanently marked is not something to be proud of but I am feeling pretty pleased with myself. I don't think I will rush to get another one but at the same time I am thinking about another one. I am glad I got this one. I saw my brother shortly after getting my tattoo and he thought it was hilarious. We turned back into kids, him saying wait till dad finds out, you'll be grounded, you can't just wipe it off. Me saying what's dad going to do, he can't ground me. My dad did find out and he was less than impressed but the best argument was that I have gone 46 years without a tattoo, why one now? I don't know why one now but it's there now and I love it!

It wasn't something I really discussed with Stu, so when he rang on his lunch break, I told him and he didn't believe me. I sent him a photo of mine and Becky's tattoo and him and his friend at work discussed them and came up with the idea they were just images stolen off Google. Eesh! I sent him another photo of my arm in front of my face and he was a little more convinced but still thought we were winding him up. It was only when he got home and saw them for himself that he knew it was true.

How has your week been? I hope you have had a good one! I am of course linking up with Anne who blogs at Raisie Bay and her Word of the Week linky!

Word of the Week

12 comments :

  1. I love your tattoo. I knew immediately what its meaning is, before reading the post. It looks beautiful. The whole experience sounds great.
    Congratulations for having something this beautiful and this meaningful on your skin.

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  2. Aww, I like how meaningful your tattoo is! How funny that Stu didn't believe you'd gotten inked!! I like the little duck, too. How adorable! I hope you continue to enjoy the site of your tattoo! Have a great weekend!

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  3. I'm not usually a tattoo lover, but I really like how you designed yours and the meaningfulness of it. It really turned out nice!

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  4. I've never considered getting a tattoo but I really love yours (and your daughter's) and the meaning behind each. I especially love the simplicity and the meaning behind yours.

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  5. That's a beautiful design and so meaningful!

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  6. Does your hubs like it? I appreciate when there's a meaning behind a tattoo and you seem to have found that with yours. It's simple, but there's a story behind it and that's the best part. Enjoy your new ink!

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  7. Interesting post. Not a tattoo person here.

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  8. I think you chose well, Kim! Yours is meaningful and not 'over-the-top' like some we see. Very nice. The duck is cute, too! Well done, both of you!!

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  9. Your tattoo holds so much meaning. I don’t usually like tattoos, but every now and then I see a design like yours and think, oh, I actually like that. I’ve also had to do a lot of adjusting around them. Would you believe my youngest came back from Bali with a tattoo on his inner forearm? I think I cried on and off for about three weeks. My whole family thinks it’s hilarious that the “golden” boy went and did something so radical. I know he wants to get more (all anime-related ones), but after my reaction, he has promised to wait until he moves out. I’m hoping he stays home forever (joking… not joking).

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  10. Hi Kim... while I am not particularly fond of tattoos, I do have two granddaughters that have them. I will say though, they are little tats. I think you used wisdom in thinking this out and came up with a design that has meaning to you. Enjoy it!! Sending you warm hugs and Easter Blessings.

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  11. Wow, I love it! I have toyed with the idea of having a tattoo, if I did it would be something small and meaningful just like yours.

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  12. I got the meaning straight away and that's such a great reason for the tattoo. Hope Stu liked it too.

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