Tuesday, 20 October 2026

If I could plan the perfect Autumn day!

If I could wave a magic wand and have the perfect autumn day I already know how it would go. I would like to do all of my favourite things and the weather has to be just right too. I would want proper autumn weather where it's cold enough to need a coat but not freezing that I'm shivering as soon as I step outside. I'd like a bit of that crisp feeling in the air, some sunshine would be great along with some blue skies and a few leaves swirling around would be perfect!

The perfect Autumn day!

I'd start the day with a wander around a farmers market. I'm a sucker for them at any time of year but there's something about going in Autumn that makes me want to buy everything in sight. I love having a look at all the seasonal fruit and veg, homemade bread, cakes, jams and chutneys. All the things I probably don't need but still manage to convince myself I need! I'm terrible for walking in saying I'm just having a look and then coming out with a bag full of things I really didn't need to buy. Oops! There is one thing I'll have to show some self control with though. I mustn't buy any apples or pears because I've already got plans for those later in the day. I'd probably get a nice coffee while I wandered around too. A pumpkin spice latte would be perfect. it is the season after all. I know pumpkin spice isn't for everyone but I like it at this time of year. Next month I will move onto hot chocolate. hehehe

From there we'd head straight to a pumpkin patch! You can't have the perfect autumn day without pumpkins! I'd want to wander around checking out all the weird and wonderful shapes and sizes and knowing me, choosing just one would take forever. I'd pick one, spot a better one, find an even bigger one and convince myself we needed all of them. I'd definitely leave trying to carry way too many home.

By this point we'd probably be getting hungry, which is perfect because the afternoon tea at a pub near us would be next. They're doing an autumn afternoon tea with toasted sandwiches and tomato soup, mini sausage and chutney rolls, scones with jam and clotted cream, apple crumble and custard, treacle tart and as much tea and coffee as you can drink. Doesn't that sound amazing! I'm a big fan of afternoon tea anyway but give me toasted sandwiches and tomato soup instead of just tiny sandwiches and I'm happy. There's something I really like about sitting in a pub on a chilly autumn afternoon too. If there's an open fire going, even better!

After all that food, I'd definitely need to walk some of it off so I'd head over to my dad's and pick some apples and pears from his trees. Picking fruit is one of my favourite things to do at this time of year. There's something nice about knowing exactly where the fruit has came from. I'd probably end up with more than I actually need because I'm not very good at knowing when to stop. I'd bring them home, put them on the kitchen bench and then start thinking about what I could make with them. Apple crumble would probably be first because it's one of my favourites but then I'd start thinking about pies and muffins too!

While we're out, I'd also have had the slow cooker doing its job at home. I would have filled it before heading out in the morning. Putting everything in ready for a sausage casserole. There is nothing better than coming home to the smell of something that has been cooking all day.

I'd probably decide to do some baking which sounds lovely in my head. In reality, the kitchen would probably look like I'd been in there for about six hours. There'd be apple peelings everywhere, flour on the kitchen side, bowls in the sink and something cooling down while I try not to eat it before it's properly ready.

After tea I'd want to do a whole lot of nothing. I'd get changed into my PJs and plonk my behind straight into my armchair to watch a film. I wouldn't want anything too scary. I'd want something fun and autumnal which is why Hocus Pocus would be perfect. It's one of those films that just feels right at this time of year. You've got witches, Halloween, pumpkins and all the autumn bits. I'd probably have a piece of whatever I'd baked earlier too with a hot chocolate to drink. Now I just need to actually make this perfect autumn day happen.

What would your perfect Autumn day look like?

Monday, 19 October 2026

Our weekly meal plan! 19th - 25th October! #MealPlanningMonday

Our weekly meal plan

Happy Monday! I hope you all had a lovely weekend! I had a lovely Saturday. Becky was home and awake which is a rarity for a Saturday. Usually she is sleeping after a night shift or before one, she had a week off and it felt like a treat for everyone. She helped with the jobs around the house, I annoyed her by listening to Christmas music and she caught up with her laundry. Yesterday we didn't do much at all. It was a day for watching movies and just relaxing. Just what Sunday's are made for.

Last week's meal plan went pretty well. We ate almost everything and on the day I had planned. We had to change things on Saturday and we didn't have the Pork Meatball Marinara Flatbreads because when I found out Becky's partner was coming, I knew there wouldn't be enough from the Gousto box so we just made pizza. Our favourite meal from the week was the One Pot Spicy Lamb & Sultana Stew! The flavours worked so well together and we will be having it again!

This week is going to be another quiet week for me. Ellie finished her temporary job and they said they will be back in touch at the beginning of November if there is more work but she's not hanging around waiting. She has 2 more job interviews this week!

On the menu this week we have:

Monday - No idea!
Stu is doing the cooking tonight, so it will be a surprise. I don't think he knows what he's planning to cook either but I think it will be something out of the freezer. I like nights like this because I don't have to decide anything. I can just turn up and eat!

Tuesday - Gousto meal - Oven Baked Normandy-Style Chicken Thigh & Apple Casserole!
This is a new recipe for us and it sounds so fancy! It's a chicken dish with apples and a creamy sauce making it a bit different from the usual chicken casserole we normally have with gravy.

Wednesday - Gousto meal - One Pot Pork & Beef Cheeseburger Macaroni!
I saw this on the options of meals from Gousto and had to get it. Last time we had it my family loved it and it's one of those meals they have been thinking about ever since. It's basically pasta with pork and beef mince and all those cheeseburger flavours mixed in.

Thursday - Gousto meal - Meat-Free Sloppy Joe Loaded Fries!
We're trying these meat free Sloppy Joe loaded fries. I think it is the same sloppy joe mix that we had in buns last week but this time it is over chips!

Friday - A takeaway of some sort!
Friday night is an easy night for me. I don't cook and we order takeaway. It could be Chinese or Indian food or even ordering from the fish and chip shop. We will decide on the day what we fancy. Last week we has sausage, chips and curry sauce.

Saturday - Gousto meal - Toffee Apple, Pork & Cheddar Burger!
This is another new meal to try. The burgers are made with pork, apple and cheddar which sounds like an yummy combination. I like trying different burgers instead of just having plain beef burgers every time.

Sunday - A help yourself evening!
I have no plans for Sunday at all. Everyone can help themselves to whatever they fancy and use up bits from the fridge, freezer and cupboards. There is always something that needs using up.

What are you eating this week?

Sunday, 18 October 2026

A photo every day for a year! 11th - 17th October Week 42 of #Project365

Happy Sunday!! I hope you've all had a lovely week and are enjoying your weekend. We're getting through October really quickly now, aren't we? Even Ellie, who doesn't usually notice things like this, couldn't believe we are past the halfway point of the month. I already have Christmas on my mind and have planned when the tree and decorations are going up. The day after my birthday at the end of next month. hehehe

I have had a week of being mostly alone and I have been totally OK with it, I have actually enjoyed it but it was nice to have Becky back on Friday. She spent most of the week at her partner's place and I feel like I've hardly seen Ellie. She's been busy, busy, busy. She had her last shift at work on Friday and was told there could be another couple of months work at the start of November. Ugh. At least now she has a bit of money saved and the hunt goes on for full-time, permanent work. She has another couple of interviews next week, so onwards and upwards.

Now for a photo every day!

The Spiderman movie on the TV
Weeds and chocolate drink
Driving licence and Hull Fair
Pretty view and water droplets

284/365 11th October
Sunday was spent doing a bit of housework before settling down in front of the TV to watch the F1 Grand Prix and then the latest Spiderman movie. The Spiderman film was fantastic!! Spider-Man is in my top five Marvel characters, along with Thor, Loki, Iron Man and Deadpool. Hehehe.

285/365 12th October
Stu and I were out in the garden doing a bit of pruning, weeding and tidying up. The garden always seems to need something doing. We managed to get quite a bit done and the best part was that we filled the brown wheelie bin just in time for it to be emptied the next day.

286/365 13th October
I got an iced caramel chocolate drink from Greggs. According to the description it's made with cocoa powder and semi skimmed milk, with caramel flavour syrup and a salted caramel flavour drizzle on top. To me it tastes not quite like a milkshake but more like an iced hot chocolate drink.

287/365 14th October
I finally got my provisional driving licence sent out to me! A good few weeks ago, the DVLA emailed me asking about the paper driving licence I had when I was 17 years old. I lost it, probably by the time I was 20 and hadn't thought about it since. When I applied for my provisional licence, I put it down as my first application because I'd completely forgotten about the old one. A few weeks later the DVLA wanted me to confirm a few details. My new provisional licence arrived on Wednesday. On Friday I received a cheque in the post for £34 which was a bit of a surprise. I wasn't expecting a refund. I paid £34 and as far as I understand it a replacement provisional licence costs £20. So, if they were treating this as a replacement I would have expected to only get £14 back. I think there has been a mix up somewhere. I am going to give them a ring on Monday.

288/365 15th October
This isn't my photo, I pinched it from Becky's partner, who took it. They were up one of the three big wheels at Hull Fair. My girls and their people went to the fair and had a fantastic time. They only went on a few rides, they were there for the food. Between them, they had hot dogs, noodles, Yorkshire Pudding wraps, corn dogs, doughnuts and brought me candyfloss back!

289/365 16th October
Friday was a lovely Autumn day, so I took a few photos on the way to my dad's. The sun was shining and it was chilly but not too cold. It was the sort of weather that made me glad I went out. The nice weather didn't last, by mid-afternoon it was absolutely chucking it down.

290/365 17th October
I guess it rained overnight. There were pretty little droplets on a table outside.

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Saturday, 17 October 2026

This week my Word of the Week is: Alone!! #WotW

This week my Word of the Week is: 

Alone

I hope you've all had a good week! I've had a really great one. Don't worry about my word, I'm not using it in a negative way. I usually think of being alone as a bit of a negative thing but this week I've enjoyed every moment of being alone. I haven't had much choice in the matter as my family have all been off doing their own thing. lol! From 8am until almost 7pm it was just me in the house on Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday. I'm not used to having that much time to myself, so it was a bit strange at first but I soon got used to it.

I love my family to bits and I love spending time with them but sometimes I do enjoy having a bit of time to myself. The last time I had time like this was before Ellie finished college. It's been nice being able to get on with things without having to think about anyone else and just do my own thing for a change. Stu has been at work as normal. Ellie has been working, doing her English course or spending time with her "friend". Becky has had a week off work and spent most of it at her partner's place. She went away on Tuesday and came back yesterday.

I'm quite happy in my own company until something happens and I have no one to tell. lol I've been waiting for my Provisional Driving Licence to be sent out to me for weeks. I was panicking thinking something had gone wrong as I applied for it at the start of September and it's taken its sweet time! I was so excited when the postman came and I opened the little brown envelope. Of course I had to message Becky and show her a photo of it. She said I look like a right criminal. Eesh! I don't care, I feel like a real person now that I can prove who I am. lol As much as I have been home alone, Becky has been there at the end of a message, I've been sent snaps, TikToks and lots of chatter through text.

Stu rang on Wednesday while he was on his lunch break and the funny about it was that it was the first time during the whole day I had actually spoken out loud! I didn't even realise until I answered the phone and couldn't speak properly. lol After that I made a point of talking to myself more out loud and singing along to music that I had been playing.

One of the things I have enjoyed this week has been doing things my own way. It sounds like such a small thing but I've had no one to answer to or explain things to. I've been able to throw the dirty washing down the stairs into a heap behind the front door without worrying if someone is going to come in. I could fill the slow cooker and not worry about cleaning up the mess. I went and did some blogging and then went back and tidied the kitchen. I went in the shower and left the bathroom door open so it didn't get all steamy in there and I had my music playing and there was no one telling me off about it.

Don't worry, I have had some family time this week. On Monday evening we were all home, ate together and had a good catch up. After us all being so busy, it was good to have that time. The girls and their people went to Hull fair during the week and Becky came home yesterday after her few days away. We have more family time tonight, which I am looking forward to. Becky's partner is coming over for an evening in front of the TV. We have Strictly Come Dancing, The Voice and some wrestling to watch.

How has your week been? I hope you have had a good one! I am of course linking up with Anne who blogs at Raisie Bay to join in with her Word of the Week linky!

Word of the Week