Saturday, 5 July 2025

This week my Word of the Week is: Watching! #WotW

This week my Word of the Week is:

Watching

I've had a busy week doing lots of things that I don't usually do, all good things and I have done a lot of watching of various things over the past week and it wasn't just the TV either!

Becky has had her 2nd week off work and it has been lovely watching her and her sister get along. Her and Ellie are not always the best of friends so when they do get along it warms my heart. The times when they have been getting along have mostly been plotting and ganging up on me, in the nicest possible way, well mostly! At the moment they are obsessed with playing pool, Becky took her dad to the pool bar for Father's Day and this week I decided to go along with them to see what all the fuss was about. It's not my cup of tea but it was nice to see them having fun together even if they did get a bit competitive. It also gave me an idea for Becky's birthday! She has always loved playing pool and has off and on over the years and has always asked or thought about buying her own pool cue, well I said I would get her one. Have you seen the price of them? I thought they would be about £20 with a case, nope! They're a lot more expensive. Eek! 

Of course I have been watching TV. The live wrestling event from Saudi Arabia and of course Glastonbury Festival. I thought it was good but not as good as previous years. My highlights were seeing Lewis Capaldi, Alanis Morissette, The Script, Wet Leg and CMAT who was totally new to me but I had seen everyone dancing to her song on TikTok. She is fantastic! What a performer: energetic, entertaining and just a little bit crazy!

I watched all of the latest season of Squid Game over the weekend. I enjoyed it. The hide and seek game was brutal and I still can't believe the final winner. I've watched some of the tennis from Wimbledon and the Women's Euro 2025 football tournament kicked off mid-week and I have seen a couple of matches. It's just another one of those things, girls are better than boys. hehehe There certainly is a lot less dramatics! They seem to fall and they mostly get straight back up without needing medics and magic water sprayed on them.

During the week I met Ellie's boyfriends parents and it was hilarious to watch her and her boyfriends faces while me and his mum were talking about them both. I think if they could have dug themselves a hole and crawled into it they would have. They cringed so hard while us mums were sharing stories and laying down some ground rules for them. hehehe We're all on the same page and it's good to know the boyfriends parents are lovely people! 

Over the the past couple of weeks I have watched my garden come to life. One day there was a couple of flowers now there are about 10 different types and colours. It was lovely on Wednesday to watch the rain falling. It wasn't even that fine, rain it was big, real raindrops! I ended up having to run around shutting the windows at the front of the house as it was coming inside. I'd like to say it cooled things down again but by teatime it was hot and sticky again! Hmmf.

How has your week been? I hope you have had a good one! I am of course linking up with Anne who blogs at Raisie Bay for her Word of the Week linky!

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Friday, 4 July 2025

What I have loved this week! Week 27. #FridayFavourites

Happy Friday folks and for you reading in the US happy 4th of July! It seems longer than a week since my last Friday Favourite blog post even though this week has flown over. Days are all feeling muddled again with my eldest having a break from work and my youngest being on her summer break from college. That is one of the joys of summer though, living the carefree out of routine life. I am of course linking up with Erika and Andrea to share the things that I have loved over this past week.

What I have loved this week

Another mini heatwave and rain!
We had the hottest day of the year again this week. On Monday the heat was unbearable even in my house which is usually lovely and cool. I kept the curtains closed trying to keep the heat out, we had fans on but whenever any of us moved we would sweat. On Wednesday morning I woke up with just a sheet on me and reached for the duvet as I was freezing! It rained on and off for most of the day and it was lovely, I even went for a look around the garden enjoying that feeling of feeling chilly.

Cold showers! 
When we first moved into this house there was no shower, just a bath. We only got a shower installed a couple of years ago and I really don't know how we managed without it, especially when it is hot out! At the start of the week I was having at least 2 showers a day and was having the water as cold as I could bear it! 

Lewis Capaldi! 
I love that man! The last time he performed live was at Glastonbury two years ago. He had some mental health problems to deal with and was suffering really badly with Tourette's. He's worked on himself, written new music and came back with a bang at Glastonbury Festival. I was almost crying seeing him singing live again and I love his new song Survive!

A new flower in my garden!

A new flower in my garden

Shopping!
Not the food shopping, the fun type of shopping for clothes, pretty things and birthday presents for my girls. We had a trip to town mostly window shopping but picked up a few things including a jacket my youngest wanted for her birthday next month. I am so glad I said no to her last month, it was £35 but on Tuesday it was reduced to £15! What a bargain!

Meeting new people!
My youngest Ellie and her boyfriend are pretty serious now and the time came for me to meet his parents. Eek! It happened by accident really, I was in town they were nearby and I was nagged into it by Ellie and her boyfriend. I am glad to say it went well and us parents are on the same page about everything regarding my girl and her boyfriend. Phew! Now there's only my fella Stu left to meet them.

Playing pool! 

A pool table and the balls

Wrestling from Saudi Arabia!
I love a big WWE event and the one over the weekend was a good one and it was even better since it started at 6pm UK time! The crowd were amazing and most of the matches were top notch too. I found myself shouting at the TV in the last 10 minutes, it was chaotic. There was cheating, interference and wrestlers flying all over the place, just what I want to see! hehehe

Summer dresses and bare legs!
Often I wear dresses with leggings or tights underneath but not this week, I have been going bare legged. It has been too hot for any unnecessary clothing! The dresses I've worn have been in my wardrobe for years without much wear so it was has been nice to get some use out of them and some sun on my pale legs which aren't looking so pale now. 

Weekend plans!
We actually have plans over the weekend which I am very excited about. It's not often both my fella and my eldest are off work on a Saturday so we're making the most of it. I will of course write more about what we have been up to next week.

What have you loved over the past week?

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Thursday, 3 July 2025

Things I’m letting go of this summer!

Last summer was a total write off, we had stuff going on which meant we didn't leave the house for weeks and when we did we were filled with anxiety. This summer is going to be different but I have found myself feeling stressed because of the pressure I am putting on myself to make it the best summer ever! The pressure to do more, be more, plan everything, make memories and keep everyone happy!! I have thought about things and I have decided to let go of the stuff that drains my energy, clutters my mind and stops me from actually enjoying the season. I want a slower, gentler summer without the stress!

A drink in a glass sitting on the edge of a swimming pool

So here are the things that I'm letting go of this summer:

Overscheduling my days!
Every minute doesn’t need to be filled. I’m saying goodbye to calendars that look like military operations and leaving space for spontaneous moments. We will decide on the morning what we are doing that day, unless we have to be somewhere important. 

Saying yes to everything!
It’s okay to say no. It's one of those things that I seemed to have learned with age. I don’t need to please everyone especially if it burns me out in the process or makes me do something that I don't really want to.

Chasing the perfect summer body!
This is my summer body. It’s already ready. No more punishing myself with guilt or diets. I am happy with my body, I am a little overweight but I am not unfit. Yeah, I couldn't run a marathon but I don't get puffed out walking up a hill and I can keep up with my family easily!

Feeling guilty for resting!
Rest is needed some days, especially if it's hot out! I’m not going to apologise for sitting in the garden or in front of the TV with a cool drink and no plans.

Expensive days out!
Summer fun doesn’t have to break the bank. Give me a picnic in the park, a day just window shopping or a walk out any day.

Putting pressure on myself to make memories!
Memories happen naturally. We don’t need a theme park, matching outfits or an expensive holiday to make them happen!

Being upset when my girls make plans without me!
They girls are growing up and that’s a good thing. I’ll cherish the times when they do choose to hang out with me and I'll let go of the FOMO.

Comparing our summer to everyone else’s!
Everyone’s social media looks amazing online but I’m not chasing someone else’s sunshine, I am going to be happy in my own!

Wearing things that aren’t comfortable just because they’re summery!
If I don’t feel good in it, I’m not wearing it. Bye bye, tight denim shorts and strappy tops that dig in! I have a whole blog post about shorts coming soon.

Apologising for doing things my way!
Whether it’s how I parent, how I relax, or what I prioritise I’m doing what works for me and I am not saying sorry! You do you and I will do me! If you have an opinion, take it elsewhere!

Feeling bad for not loving the heat!
Not everyone thrives in scorching weather. If I want to sit in front of a fan eating ice lollies that is what I will do!

Trying to make summer perfect
Perfection is exhausting and totally unrealistic. I’m embracing the messy, silly and unexpected parts because that’s what real life is all about!

What are you letting go of this summer?

Wednesday, 2 July 2025

365 Days Of Gratitude. In June I was grateful for...

Can anyone tell me where June went? It flew over. We had a good month with plenty going on. I feel like it was a really productive month getting lots of little jobs done that have been needing doing for ages.

I have seen many people on social media list something every day that they are grateful for and thought I would join in. I did this for the whole of the last couple of years and it has really made me realise that even on the bad day's I have something to be grateful for.

Grateful

Day 152 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful that Stu got some DIY jobs done around the house.

Day 153 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for lunch out at the pub. It would be rude not to with them doing 30% off on a Monday!

Day 154 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for Spaghetti Bolognese! It has been ages since we last had it!

Day 155 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful that the girls reminded me that I needed to order the food shop, I had forgotten all about it.

Day 156 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful that Ellie has finished the practical assessment part of her course at college.

Day 157 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful that Ellie has finished her English exams, she is too! She said they were easier than last year. Now we wait for the results in August.

Grass in the back garden

Day 158 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for fleecy pj's! Who'd have thought I'd still be wearing them at this time of year! It felt more like Autumn today!

Day 159 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful that my family have let me know their plans for the coming week. It's hard to keep track of them all.

Day 160 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful that Ellie had a good sort out in her room and it's looking so, so tidy!

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Today I am grateful that everyone enjoyed the curry that I made. Was a new one for us.

Day 162 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for gardening gloves! I was out today weeding the garden and disturbing all the creatures which live out there. Ants, snails and lots of spiders! Eww!

White flowers

Day 163 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful that I didn't melt when I was sorting out the cupboard under the stairs. It was that hot in there if felt like I would.

Day 164 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful that I could spend the day with my dad. It was nice just hanging out with him while he got on with a few jobs.

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Today I am grateful that the girls spoiled Stu. They took him out for the day as an early Father's Day treat.

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Today I am grateful that the girls gave Stu a great Father's Day! Cards, presents and takeaway for tea!

Father's Day treats

Day 167 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for a lovely lunch out with Stu!

Day 168 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for a nice cool living room. I am already complaining about the heat and it's meant to get warmer! Eek!

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Today I am grateful for leftovers for tea! It was so nice not having to cook.

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Today I am grateful for ice cream and ice lollies!

Blue flower

Day 171 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful that I already knows what happens in the latest season of Ginny & Georgia because my youngest gave away some big spoilers.

Day 172 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for a quiet day by myself.

Day 173 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful the grass was cut before the rain came this afternoon.

Day 174 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful that Ellie has finished college for the year and she has passed her course (electrical engineering).

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Today I am grateful for some help to move the furniture around in the living room!

Day 176 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful that Becky brought me some lunch when she came in. Just a sandwich and cake but it was better than making my own!

Yellow flower

Day 177 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful that the delivery driver for my food shop had a sense of humour, he had to with some of the silly substitutions that I was sent!

Day 178 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful that I could watch some of Glastonbury on TV. Lewis Capaldi was amazing!

Day 179 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for the WWE from Dubai! I got to watch it live instead of having to wait until the next day!

Day 180 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful that I managed to avoid all the spoilers for the last season of Squid Game! I've just finished and loved it!

Day 181 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for a lovely lunch out with my family.

What were you grateful for in June?