Saturday, 7 March 2026

This week my Word of the Week is: Admin!! #WotW

This week my Word of the Week is:

Admin

My week has been filled with admin and I am so done with it. There have been bits and bobs that needed sorting and it has been a constant flow all week. Nothing scary or stressful just lots of things!

I found myself more than once sat looking at my email inbox waiting for messages to come through. Refresh, refresh and refresh again and nothing until I walk away find myself busy doing something else and when I come back to my laptop the message I have been waiting for has been sat there an hour! Grr!

The start of a new month had the usual bills to pay. We tend to pay most of them ourselves instead of setting up direct debits. I know, I know it would probably make life easier with the direct debits but we like being in control of what goes out and when. It does mean that the first few days of the month are basically just me logging into account after account ticking things off. It’s not hard, it’s just a repetitive process. I did it all on Sunday because I didn’t have much else on my to-do list and it was nice not to rush. While I was in the paying mood I even went hunting online for our new council tax bill. It’s due to be sent out any day now and I couldn’t wait to see how much it had gone up. I braced myself but thankfully it wasn’t too bad. Ours has only gone up by £8 a month. Not amazing but in the grand scheme of things it could have been worse.

Then there was Sky TV to deal with. Stu got an email saying our package was going up in price. He was ready to march into battle, they’d previously said we were in a 24 month contract and the bill wouldn’t go up, so he was all fired up to complain. I reminded him about something I’d discovered a while ago. We’re going to be getting Disney Plus included with the package come April and with the price rise, we’ll actually end up saving money because we can cancel my Disney+ subscription which is now £14.99 a month. Eesh!

I got a message at the start of the week saying we needed to prove that Ellie is in full time education. In the two and a half years she’s been in college, I’ve only ever had to prove it when she first started. So I was a bit surprised. I contacted the college and they were so quick getting back to me. They gave me options about where I wanted the proof sent. My email, Ellie’s email, by post or Ellie could pick it up from reception. I replied joking that the only option they didn’t offer was carrier pigeon. After all that it turns out the proof wasn’t needed anyway. Someone somewhere had made a mistake and it had already been verified that Ellie was in education. So I sent the proof anyway. I felt petty but they asked for it so they were getting it.

Then there was the online weekly food shop. Usually I leave it until the evening before delivery, grab a slot and put everything into the basket in one go. This week I decided to be organised. I started the order on Monday afternoon. I added everything I could think of and thought I was done. No! Every single day my family asked me to add something. It went on all week, by the night before delivery I’d been in and out of that basket about 20 times. Next week I am going back to doing it the night before. Being organised is overrated!

Midweek I had a full on battle with the printer. Not even to print something, it was just to use the scanner. When Stu painted the dining room he unplugged the printer and didn’t plug it back in. So first I had to find the cable, eventually I found it hidden away in a bag of cables, I am still not sure it was the right one but it worked. Then came the joy of reconnecting it to the Wi-Fi, an hour passed before it was even switched on and connected. Getting it linked to my laptop was a whole other saga! 2 hours it took before I was finally ready to scan. There were five pages to scan and of course the fifth and most important page was missing. I had to go through every single folder where we keep paperwork. They're supposed to be organised, they are not! In hindsight I should have just taken photos of the documents on my phone. That would have been more than enough to send and would have saved me a lot of time.

How has your week been? I hope you have had a good one! I am of course linking up with Anne who blogs at Raisie Bay to join in with her Word of the Week linky!

Word of the Week

Friday, 6 March 2026

What I have loved this week! Week 10. #FridayFavourites

Happy Friday! I hope you have all had a good week! I've had a week of it with life admin to do. It's something I don't enjoy but this week was extra tedious waiting around for emails to be sent to me and fighting with our printer. Anyway, on to the good stuff. As always, I’m linking up with Erika and Andrea to share the things that I have loved over the past week.

What I have loved this week

A lazy Sunday!
I stayed up way past my bedtime on Saturday night watching a live wrestling event. Usually the start times are 1am but it started early at midnight. I said I was only going to stay up and watch the first couple of matches. Half way through the 3rd, I dragged myself away from the TV and took myself to bed. On Sunday morning I had a lovely lie-in, I didn't get up until almost 11am. I stayed in my PJ's all day, only changing them for bed and watching the wrestling I didn't see the night before. I would like to start a petition to have a new month start on a Sunday every month. I know, I know it wouldn’t work, but just imagine! The 1st on a Sunday does make life so much easier. I got to sort all the bills without having to rush and it was a nice treat!

The new F1 season!
This is something I never thought I’d say a year ago: I’m actually excited about the new Formula 1 season! My youngest Ellie got me into it slowly over the last year, talking about drivers, team colours, cars and all the drama that comes with it and now I know who drives for which team and can even hold a basic conversation about the races. The season officially starts today and while I won’t be watching all the races live I’m definitely keeping an eye on the highlights. Ellie, bless her, is planning to get up at 6 or 7am to watch some races throughout the season but the Australian Grand Prix has a nightmare start at 4am here in the UK. She’ll have to catch up later but it's nice to have something new to share with her.

Revels!

Revels

I’ve rediscovered an old favourite this week: Revels. I hadn’t eaten them for a good couple of years but now I’ve had a bag and a half in a week and I'm not even sorry. For anyone who hasn’t indulged in these, Revels are a bag of surprises. They’re all milk chocolate-coated but inside there’s a mix of centres: caramel, raisin, orange creme, coffee creme and a Malteser-style crunchy malt one. Most of them look the same from the outside, so you never quite know what you’re going to get. The orange ones are my favourite.

Seeds!
I’ve finally ordered my seeds for the year and they should be arriving any day now. I almost bought them from town but they seemed so expensive compared to what I could find online. I used Seeds to Suit. I’ve gone for all the usuals: sweetcorn, sunflowers, tomatoes, strawberries and a bunch of random flower seeds just to keep things colourful but this year I’m getting a little adventurous and I’m trying melons and onions for the first time. Melons might be pushing it but fingers crossed and the onions because we go through so many in this house that it just makes sense to grow them ourselves rather than buying them week after week. I just need to get my hands on some compost and then the planting can begin.

The girls have been shopping!
Mother’s Day is next weekend here in the UK, and my girls have been shopping for gifts for me. Bless them! It’s so funny to watch how they shop. Ellie, my youngest hates online shopping. She prefers wandering around the shops and sends me multiple photos asking, "Do you like this, or this, or this?” She hasn’t told me what she’s actually bought but she admitted a couple of the photos were decoys to throw me off track. Becky, my eldest, loves online shopping. She gave me a website to look at and asked me to pick out a few things I liked. I already had a few things in mind so it was so easy for her to shop. Now she’s panicking that things might not arrive in time while Ellie is gloating, saying "You should have just shopped in town!"

The old/new sideboard.
Last week, I shared a photo of our new sideboard in the living room. I was planning to take the old one to the tip, but Stu had a better idea. He was going to paint it and put it in our bedroom. I love it when he comes up with these ideas because he is really good at DIY and upcycling things.

Our old sideboard

He sanded it down, painted it and even used leftover vinyl from when he painted my dressing table for the top. I love it! It looks like a proper piece of furniture and it’s now in our bedroom., we have a sort of matching set now.

The newly painted sideboard

Setting the printer up!
Linking our printer to my laptop wasn't on my to-do list this week but it happened. I had to use the scanner on it and for some life admin, it wasn't fun getting it working but I got there in the end thanks to my helpful friend ChatGPT. I've not used the printer since the summer but now I'm connected, there's no stopping me. I am printing out to-do lists, recipes and I am waiting for some photo card to be delivered so I can print out some photos.

Strawberries!
It seems ages since we had strawberries in the fridge to snack on or have for dessert after tea but Stu called in the shop one evening after work and there was a tub in the reduced section, so he picked them up for me. I had them with cream during the week and they were good, so good that I added more to the weekly online food shop. I forgot how much I love strawberries.

What have you loved over the past week?

Friday favorites

Thursday, 5 March 2026

365 Days Of Gratitude. In February I was grateful for...

I have seen many people on social media list something every day that they are grateful for and thought I would join in. I have done this for the whole of the last few of years and it has really made me realise that even on bad days I have something to be grateful for.

I know February is a short month but it did seem to fly over! It seemed to be gone in half the time that January did. Anyway, we had a good month with Valentine's and Pancake day, Stu and Ellie had a week off work and college, we did lots of work around the house and I am whizzing through my audiobooks!

Today I am grateful for

Day 32 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for painted nails! It's been a couple of weeks since I last did them.

Day 33 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful that Stu sorted the big pile of clean washing! All that's left to do is put mine away and that's a job for tomorrow.

Day 34 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful to spend time with Becky! It seems ages since we had a full day together.

Day 36 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for hot chocolate with lots of cream on top!

Day 37 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for a good deal from the chip shop! 4 battered sausages, 2 large chips, a big tub of baked beans and a big tub of gravy, all for £12! I hope the chip shop keeps that deal for a while, it was enough to feed 4 of us!

Painted nails

Day 38 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful Dry January is over! It's been nice to have a break from the alcohol but a glass or two of wine at the end of the week is good!

Day 39 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for a day in front of the TV.

Day 40 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for a mostly dry day and the lighter nights! Tonight I noticed it was still not dark at 5pm.

Day 41 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful that Ellie went in the spider infested garage to get a new light bulb, I wasn't going in there.

Day 42 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful that Ellie has finished college for half term and Stu only has a couple more days at work until he's off for a week.

Curling on the TV

Day 43 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for a little treat from my self! Dewberry body spray and shower gel from The Body Shop. It has taken me right back to the 90s. I still love it!!

Day 44 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful to spend time with my dad and brother. Had lunch and a catch up with them.

Day 45 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for a lovely Valentine's Day with Stu! We went out paint shopping, had lunch and then I came home to a surprise bunch of flowers and a card from him!

Day 46 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful that Becky told me when her parcel was delivered because the Amazon didn't even bother knocking, they just threw it under the back gate!

Day 47 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful to have all my family home. Stu on holiday from work, Becky on her day off and Ellie on half term.

Valentine's card and roses

Day 48 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for lots and lots of pancakes!

Day 49 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for the amazing nurse who changed my contraceptive implant. She had it done in no time. It's sore now but I'll be fine in a couple of days!

Day 50 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful that all the painting in the dining room is done, I think! Stu said he might have to go over a couple of bits tomorrow when it's fully dry but the thick of it is done!

Day 51 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for lunch at my dad's. He fed us that well that we didn't want much for tea!

Day 52 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for a night out with Stu! We had a nice meal and a few drinks.

me and a meal out

Day 53 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful to get washing out on the line! It was such a lovely day here today!

Day 54 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful that Stu did some more painting, this time in the bathroom. No change to the colour, he just freshened it up a bit!

Day 55 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for audiobooks! I am onto my 10th book of the year already!

Day 56 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for a big pan of Bolognese which will do tomorrows tea too!

Day 57 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for fresh flowers! Chrysanthemums and daffodils!

sun in the sky

Day 58 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for new things to watch on TV. I had Bridgerton and Ellie had some F1 show.

Day 58 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for music to motivate me while I was doing the housework!

What were you grateful for in February?

Wednesday, 4 March 2026

The Wednesday Hodgepodge #45

I hope you are all having a good week. It's Wednesday, which means it's time to join in with the Wednesday Hodgepodge with Joyce who blogs at From This Side of the Pond! Each week there are 6 questions, we answer and then link up. Simple!

The Wednesday Hodgepodge

1. As the saying goes, 'March comes in like a lion and goes out like a lamb.' Did your March come in roaring or like some other animal? Every month carries with it certain feelings, which is why some people love and anticipate December and others dread it. How do you feel about the month of March?

March didn’t roar at all this year. The 1st landed on a Sunday, which meant it didn’t feel rushed, it was a nice, calm way to begin the month. I had chance to sit and sort out the bills without having anything else on my to-do list. I like a slow start to the month. I would like every month to start on a Sunday. hehehe

I’ve always liked March. The end of winter is close, the evenings are getting lighter and life just feels a bit brighter and more hopeful!

2. Where in your life are you a lion? Where are you a lamb?

I’m definitely a lion when it comes to my girls. If they need me, I am right there! I’ll stand up for them, defend them and make sure they know I’ve got their back. I’m there with my imaginary mane flying and roaring if needed. Now they're adults, I try to step back a bit and let them fight their own battles but I am always there if they need me for a bit of backup.

I’m a bit of a lamb in social situations. If I am in a room full of strangers I feel like a deer in headlights. I’ll smile, nod and hope nobody talks to me. I’m chatty once I’m comfortable but with strangers I just go into myself.

3. The Hodgepodge lands on National Pound Cake day. Do you like pound cake? If so do you have a favorite flavor? Let's play this or that-

I had to Google what Pound Cake is. Over here in England it is called Madeira Cake. I am not a big fan of it as it always seems so dry.

pound cake or layer cake? Layer cake but over here we call it a sandwich cake. It could be a Victoria sponge with two sponge layers, jam and sometimes cream in the middle, dusted with a bit of icing sugar. Yum!

Victoria Sponge Cake

pound cake or cheesecake? Cheesecake! Yum!

pound cake or angel food cake? When I think of a Angel Food Cake, I think of the Angel cakes we get over here which are not the same. Ours is white, pink and yellow layers of a sponge cake sandwiched together with a bit of vanilla buttercream. Mr Kipling does them best!

Mr Kipling Angel slices

pound cake or brownie? Brownie!

pound cake or pie? Pie! Apple pie is my favourite!

4. What makes you feel childlike wonder right now?

The first signs of spring! A few weeks ago it was cold, dark and a bit depressing but now the days are brighter, the sun actually feels warm on your face and little things start to feel exciting again. The first daffodils are popping up, the birds are singing properly and everything just feels fresh and new. Simple things like getting the washing on the line, thinking about what to plant in the garden and going outside without a massive coat makes me happy.

5. What's one thing you need to add to your wardrobe to get ready for spring? If you're in the southern hemisphere, then answer for fall?

I think I just need a few lighter coloured T-shirts. While going through my wardrobe at the start of the year, I realised that pretty much everything I own is black or navy. It’s fine for winter but not for spring! I need something with a bit of colour or even some white T-shirts will do.

6. Insert your own random thought here.

I really need to stop checking the weather every five minutes. It’s March, it’s unpredictable and I need to accept that. One day it can be rainy and grey. The next we have sunshine and blue skies.

Wednesday Hodgepodge