Saturday, 8 November 2025

This week my Word of the Week is: Frustration!! #WotW

This week my Word of the Week is:

Frustration

I’ve had an OK week. Nothing to write home about but not awful either. It has been one of those in-between ones where everything feels a bit flat after the excitement of the week before. Last week everyone was off work and school and we even had a little night away so I suppose this week was always going to feel a bit meh!

The week started off great. The girls headed out to town with their friends so Stu and I decided to have a meal out, it would have been rude not to with the pub doing 2 steak meals and a bottle of wine for £30. Bargain! We sat chatting over our meal, enjoying being just us for a bit. Afterwards we wandered off to another pub that had a live band on. It was one of those random, unplanned evenings which turned out better than anything we could have planned. We were back home by 11pm, feet up and watching wrestling on the TV! It started earlier than usual because our clocks had gone back but America’s hadn’t so for once we weren’t staying up until the early hours to watch it live. What a treat! The girls had great nights too with their friends and didn't roll in until half past three in the morning. Eesh!

Then came the rest of the week and my mood dipped slightly. There were a few frustrations that had me muttering under my breath and rolling my eyes. My phone network decided to be stupid and for some reason, it started texting me my balance every ten minutes for hours at a time. At first I thought it was just me but after scrolling through social media, I saw loads of other people were having the same problem. Apparently if you spoke to customer services they could switch the messages off. I spent 50 minutes on hold listening to the worst music before finally getting through to someone who couldn’t have cared less if she tried. She told me the problem was because I’d been using social media and using my data. Except my data was turned off and even if I had been on social media it would’ve been over the Wi-Fi! Her advice was to top up my balance and the messages will stop. What a load of nonsense. At that point I’d lost all patience, I told her she was useless and hung up which wasn’t my finest moment but she really was about as much use as a chocolate teapot.

I had another situation during the week where the poor woman on the other end of the phone was trying to help but her hands were tied by ridiculous rules and then of course on the one day Ellie absolutely needed to be home on time from college, the road was blocked and she ended up having to walk into town to get a different bus which meant she didn't get home until much later.

Wednesday evening rolled around and I decided to stay indoors hiding from Bonfire Night or as I call it the night I turn into a nervous wreck! I’ve never liked fireworks. This year seemed worse than usual too, there were fireworks going off in every direction. I totally get how pets feel now. I turned the TV up, shut all the curtains and tried to pretend it wasn’t happening. The girls went to the local display with their friends and had a brilliant time right up until they realised Becky’s girlfriend had lost her bank card. She did the sensible thing froze it and reported it lost straight away and it turned out she’d done it just in time. A notification popped up not long after showing someone had tried to use it. £63 at a sweet stall! £63, the cheek! I hope whoever it was looked very silly when they tried to pay for their mountain of sweets and the card was declined. Some people really have no shame.

By Thursday I was ready for a bit of calm and something to look forward to. The Celebrity Traitors final! I’ve loved this series and wasn’t sure if the celebrity version would work but they’ve been so serious about it which made it even more fun to watch. I was so excited for the finale until I accidentally saw the spoiler online. It had been released early on a Canadian streaming service and before I even realised what I was clicking on the show was ruined. I still watched but it wasn’t the same knowing what was coming.

We’ve got no big plans for the weekend and that suits me fine. After the chaos of the week a quiet couple of days sounds perfect. I’ve stocked up on some tasty snacks for while we're watching TV tonight: Bucks Fizz popcorn, maple honey roasted nuts and Pigs in Blankets flavoured crisps from Tesco’s festive range. I’m such a sucker for all the Christmas snacks that start popping up this time of year.

It hasn't been a bad week, it has been a mix of little annoyances and nice moments. How has your week been? I hope you have had a good week. I am of course linking up with Anne who blogs at Raisie Bay to join in with her Word of the Week linky.

Word of the Week

Friday, 7 November 2025

What I have loved this week! Week 45. #FridayFavourites

This week flew over despite me not getting up to much. I’m here today sharing the little things that I’ve loved from the past week and of course I’m linking up with Erika and Andrea to share them.

What I have loved this week

Other people having phone problems!
My phone decided to go rogue this week and started sending me text messages every ten minutes for hours on end telling me my account balance. I thought I was losing my mind. I’m on Pay As You Go and pay £5 a month for unlimited texts and calls so my balance doesn’t exactly change unless I add extra credit or the payment comes off. At first I thought it must just be me, I even started questioning whether I’d somehow signed up for balance updates but then I had a quick scroll on Twitter, X or whatever it’s calling itself this week and other people were having the same issue. I could’ve cried with relief! There’s nothing worse than tech playing up and thinking it's just a you problem! I did ring customer support, but they weren’t exactly helpful. I still don't know what's happening but my youngest girls phone has been doing the same since Wednesday so it really isn't just me! I am glad other people are having problems too, it's not a big problem, just an annoyance.

Mini Adventure Golf!
This didn't make it into last weeks favourites as we had a night away on Thursday. We went and played mini, adventure golf and had the best time. I'm sure we didn't play it properly by making up our own rules but it worked. It's a great family activity, Myself and my fella loved it and my girls too! I don’t know why we don’t do things like that more often because it was such a laugh. I have a whole blog post about it next week but it is something we want to do again!

Playing mini adventure golf

Being home alone!
My family are back at work and college after having last week off and it has been nice to have the house mostly to myself again. Becky has been sleeping after working night shifts but it's like I am home alone. All I have done all week is catch up on the housework that I didn't do last week, nothing at all glamorous, just washing, tidying and pottering around at my own pace. It’s been lovely though! No one hovering behind me asking What’s for lunch or leaving mugs everywhere. I’ve even had the TV to myself which was a real treat!

Gilmore Girls!
I finally finished Gilmore Girls and oh my goodness how did I not realise there were four extra episodes? I must’ve stopped after the end of the seventh season the last time I watched it and just never knew. What a treat! I went through every emotion watching A Year in the Life. I laughed, I cried and I got way too emotionally invested in fictional characters yet again. Even though I’d love to know what happens next I was actually pretty happy with how it all wrapped up.

Steak!
I’ve never really been a steak lover. It’s always been one of those meals I never chose as I felt intimidated about the choices and how much to have it cooked but a few months ago I had a steak and onion baguette at the pub and the taste won me over! So when our local pub had an offer of two steak meals and a bottle of wine for £30 I knew we needed to give it a try. A meal is usually around £15 and a bottle of wine is about the same so it felt like we were getting one meal for free! It was amazing! Proper juicy steak, chips, peas, mushrooms and tomato!. One of those meals that I'm still thinking about almost a week later.

Steak, chips, peas, mushrooms and tomatoes

Bonfire night!
That is not my favourite, I am not a fan of the fireworks, it sounded like a warzone here but my girls went to the local display and had a lovely time. They weren't too fussed about the fireworks, they only went for the fairground rides and food vans. It makes me happy when they do things together and get along. Now that bonfire night is over it means I can start getting excited about Christmas.

Stranger Things!
With the new episodes coming later this month I decided to start watching Stranger Things again from the beginning. I forgot how young they all were when it first started, they were just little kids and I love spotting all the small things I missed the first time round. It’s such a good series to rewatch but I can’t wait for the new season. It feels like ages since we’ve had fresh episodes!

What have you loved over the past week?

Friday favorites

Thursday, 6 November 2025

365 Days Of Gratitude. In October I was grateful for...

October was an OK month, not great but not terrible either. We had some real life things going on which were a bit of a worry for a week or so but we moved past it and enjoyed the end of the month. The clocks changed and that has taken some getting used to. At the moment I am enjoying it being dark at tea time but give it a month or so and I am sure I will be complaining. hehehe

I have seen many people on social media list something every day that they are grateful for and thought I would join in. I did this for the whole of the last couple of years and it has really made me realise that even on the bad day's I have something to be grateful for.

Grateful

Day 274 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for a day home alone to catch up on all the soaps.

Day 275 of #365DaysOfGratitude
Today I am grateful for home made cinnamon buns! I made them myself and they taste amazing!

cinnamon buns

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Today I am grateful that my dad gave us a lift home from his. The rain and wind was so bad this afternoon.

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Today I was grateful for home made pizza washed down with Terry's Chocolate Orange Baileys! It was nice, tasted like chocolate orange but had such a kick to it!

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Today I am grateful for lunch out at the pub! I was so excited the carvery had pigs in blankets! What a treat!

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Today I am grateful that I could have a tidy up in the garden. Pulled a lot of weeds and the grass was cut.

Me

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Today I am grateful that I was up bright and early this morning and I had all my jobs done by 11am.

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Today I am grateful that someone was here when a big spider appeared, to catch it and put it outside!

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Today I am grateful for two more new fence panels being put up! Only 3 more to go until we have a completely new fence.

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Today I am grateful to see my dad again. I've spent time with him 3 days on the trot and it has been lovely!

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Today I am grateful that I could help youngsters out on the bus coming home from Hull Fair. Standing room only on the bus but people weren't moving I shouted at the youth to move down. They listened and young people getting on thought I was a hero. lol

Sunset

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Today I am grateful for an early night! I'm off to bed before 11pm, it's a miracle!

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Today I am grateful that Ellie has a good bunch of friends. They may be a little crazy but they're good eggs!

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Today I am grateful that the girls had a great time at Hull Fair! I dread to think how much they have spent though. Eek!

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Today I am grateful that Stu called into the shop and got some of the fancy, crusty bread to go with tea.

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Today I am grateful for a productive day at home getting little jobs done.

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Today I am grateful that plans have been made for the weekend. Mostly it's just being at home but my family are all home together!

Another sunset

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Today I am grateful for a long soak in the bath. I even popped the heating on for an hour so it was cosy and warm when I got out.

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Today I am grateful for my fleecy pj's. It was nice to come in and get changed into them after being caught in the rain!

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Today I am grateful that Stu was off work today so he could help me out with a few things!

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Today I am grateful that I got a food shop delivery slot for Christmas. Asda's have opened their xmas slots already!

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Today I am grateful for a night of good TV! The soaps, Celebrity Traitors, Hollyoaks Later (which was shocking, poor Dodger) and Big Brother.

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Today I am grateful that I won a little on the bingo, just my money back but it was fun!

Bingo

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Today I am grateful for my girls who get along and are happy to have nights out together!

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Today I am grateful that Stu is off work now, for just over a week!

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Today I am grateful that I could spend today watching The Gilmore Girls.

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Today I am grateful that we've made plans for this week with Stu and Becky off work and Ellie off college for the week!

My girls and I

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Today I am grateful for hair dye! Bye, bye all those roots and grey hair!

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Today I am grateful for help with the housework. All that's left to do is the girls rooms and that is their job!

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Today I was grateful for a lovely night away!

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Today I am grateful to be back home! Hotels are nice but home comforts are better!

What were you grateful for in October?

Wednesday, 5 November 2025

The Wednesday Hodgepodge #34

I hope you are all having a good week? It's Wednesday which means it's time to join in with the Wednesday Hodgepodge with Joyce who blogs at From This Side of the Pond! Each week there are 6 questions, we answer and then link up. Simple!

Question marks on paper crafts

1. Besides Thanksgiving, something on your November calendar you're looking forward to?

November is my favourite month out of all of the months, I actually published a blog post yesterday about what I am looking forward to and have planned. I think the big things are my birthday, the new Wicked Movie, Stranger Things and all the Christmas excitement and build up.

2. Dictionary.com's word of the year is '6-7'. Huh? Is it even a word??? I had to consult the internet to find out it's meaning because apparently I'm old and this particular slang is not part of my vocabulary. Is it part of yours? According to the article I read, it's a viral term, more of an inside joke with an unclear meaning driven by social media. What do you think?

Dictionary. com says it's selection each year is a 'linguistic time capsule reflecting social trends and events, but they also admitted to being confused by '6-7'. Some say it means so-so and is sometimes accompanied by the up and down hand motion we associate with the phrase so-so.

What word do you think would have made a better choice?

I saw that too and had the exact same reaction! 6 - 7. Huh? I had to Google it and still don't understand it. I feel old. I think they only picked it because it was everywhere online even though no one really knows what it means. I get that they want to reflect pop culture but it’s not even a word! I have started using it myself though, when my girls ask me something and I don’t have a clue how to answer I say 6 - 7, shrug and move on. Works every time! hehehe.

If I had to pick a word of the year, something that actually sums up 2025 I would go with something like "Aura" because everyone’s obsessed with it these days or "AI something" since it’s creeping into everything!

3. What's a food, trend, activity, or thing people love but you think is just so-so?

Escape rooms! Everyone acts like they’re these epic adventures full of suspense and clever tricks but being locked in a room with puzzles and a ticking clock just screams stress to me. I get that some people love the challenge but it's not for me. I prefer calmer activities.

4. Are you a tea drinker? Hot or cold? How do you like yours and at what time of day? Do you like flavored teas or teas billed as calming, energizing, healing, etc?

Cup of tea

Oh! I am a tea drinker. Proper British style: PG Tips, Tetley or Yorkshire Tea which which is my favourite. Hot, strong and always in a mug that’s far too big for my hands. I like mine with a splash of milk and two sugars. I drink at least 3 a day. I need it in the morning to get me moving, another cup with lunch because life’s better with a sip of warmth and then another around 8pm paired with something sweet like a slice of cake or some biscuits. I've tried those fancy calming and energizing teas but no thank you! They taste like someone dunked a flower in hot water and hoped for the best.

5. The November Hodgepodge has always included a weekly gratitude question. Here's the question for today-what are three things that make your heart sing?

My girls! Just those little moments together! Laughing until our cheeks hurt, random chats about everything and nothing or watching them do something utterly ridiculous. It fills me up in a way nothing else does.

Time with my dad! He’s like a human pause button! Just being around him makes everything feel calmer and slower and I really need that sometimes.

Good food! It doesn’t matter if it’s fancy or just comfort food straight from the oven there’s nothing like a full belly to make me feel happy.

6. Insert your own random thought here.

Going back to question 2 and my mention of AI. It seems to be everywhere now, creeping into our everyday lives. The apps on our phones, streaming music, in our cars, smart home gadgets and even the way we shop or scroll online. It’s amazing but also a bit unnerving when you stop and think about it. I’ve seen The Terminator movies enough times to know that while we’re not on the brink of a robot takeover just yet it’s a good idea to pay attention. The more we let AI make decisions for us like finishing our sentences, suggesting what we should do next the more we risk losing a little bit of control over our own lives. It’s exciting but also a reminder that we need to stay thoughtful about how much we let it in.

Wednesday Hodgepodge