What I have loved this week! Week 32. #FridayFavourites

Happy Friday! I hope you've had a good week. Mine has been a bit of a mixed one because I have been hit with a horrible cold that Stu brought home from work. I haven’t felt my best this week but have still found a few things that I have loved and have made the week a little easier. I am of course linking up with Erika and Andrea to share.

Cold and flu essentials!

I have loved all the things that have helped me feel slightly more human again. Cold and flu tablets haven’t magically made the cold disappear but they have helped with the aches, blocked nose and that horrible heavy feeling you get when you’re full of cold. I’ve also been relying on cough medicine and throat sweets and I have worked my way through packets of tissues!

Taking things easy!

This week I have slowed down a lot, I've had to. I have wanted to do things but I haven't had the energy or motivation. My body was saying Nope, not today! I have done the bare minimum and the world didn't end. Resting was probably the best thing I could do and I'd like to think it has helped me feel better quicker. I've not felt one bit of guilt about not getting jobs done around the house and spending more time in my armchair.

Easy meals!

When I don’t feel well the last thing I want to do is spend ages cooking and this week has definitely been about easy meals and keeping things simple. I didn't want to be stood in the kitchen coughing and sneezing all over the food. The simple meals have been the best!

Lots of TV time!

This week has been a good excuse to watch more TV and I have watched plenty. Early on in the week I watched The Devil Wears Prada and also watched The Devil Wears Prada 2 as it recently arrived on Disney+. The 2nd one was OK but I still prefer the first one. I've watched more of The Walking Dead and Grey's Anatomy, which were perfect because I've seen them before, so I didn't have to concentrate too much.

Sympathy from Stu and Becky!

Stu has given me all the sympathy. He had it last week, so he knows how this cold feels. He has been chief tea maker and went to the shop to get more cough medicine when we had run out, what a star! The other person who joined the poorly club this week was Becky. She started with it the day after me, so we are just about at the same stage of cold misery. It's funny because we have been comparing symptoms and just hanging in there together! Ellie is the lucky one, she hasn't had as much as a sniffle and I hope that continues!

Looking for the positives!

This week hasn’t gone how I planned. I had things I wanted to do and jobs I wanted to get done but life had other ideas. Being poorly has reminded me that slowing down isn’t a bad thing. I am feeling much, much better now. Not back to 100% but I'm getting there. 

What have you loved this week?

365 Days Of Gratitude. In July I was grateful for...

I have seen many people on social media list something every day that they are grateful for and thought I would join in. I have done this for the whole of the last few of years and it has really made me realise that even on bad days I have something to be grateful for.

July went by in a flash, I know I say that every month but last month seemed to go extra quick. I think it was because we were all out of routine with Ellie not being at college, Becky and Stu having time off work at the start of the month and a couple more mini heatwaves. There was a lot to be grateful for.

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Today I am grateful that England won their match! It was so stressful watching it.

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Today I am grateful for a day at home as we have a busy couple of days coming up.

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Today I am grateful that an appointment that Ellie had today went really well. Me worrying for days about it was a complete waste of my time and energy.

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Today I am grateful for a fab day at the country show! I am also grateful that my brother could get our dad's car running after a split in the petrol pipe thing.

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Today I am grateful that Stu cooked for us tonight. Pie, mash and veg.

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Today I am grateful that Ellie knows some interesting people! Minding our own business, walking down the high street and see a man with a snake around his neck! Of course Ellie knows him, we stopped for a chat and it turns out the snake is a support pet!

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Today I am grateful that my family all ate together tonight, it doesn't happen often.

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Today I am grateful for fresh strawberries! My dad was given loads and brought me some!

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Today I am grateful Ellie really is finished with college now. She had a call yesterday asking her to go in and fill in some paperwork that she was meant to do before she left. Oops. It's all done now!

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Today I am grateful that I could jump into a cold shower this afternoon when I had enough of being hot and sweaty!

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Today I am grateful that we're through to the semi final of the World Cup!!!

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Today I am grateful for so many butterflies and bees in my garden. They are loving all the flowers!

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Today I am grateful for a day out in Hull and that it has been a lot cooler here!

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Today I am grateful for help watering the garden since I had to do it with watering cans because of the hosepipe ban.

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Today I am grateful for a few drinks while watching the match. Gutted they lost but they played well.

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Today I am grateful for lunch with Becky and her partner! They stayed home especially to spend time with me!

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Today I am grateful for new things to watch on TV since I've watched nothing but football for the last month! Elle off Prime is brilliant and I have just started Little House on the Prairie!

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Today I am grateful it was nice and cool so I could do some work in the garden!

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Today I am grateful for a day of sport! Last nights wrestling, the Belgian Grand Prix and finally the World Cup final! I am so glad Spain won!

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Today I am grateful that all the clean washing was put away!

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Today I am grateful everything went well for Ellie with the couple of appointments which she had. She only rang me twice panicking when she got lost and then couldn't find the bus stop.

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Today I am grateful that I got my usual food shop delivery slot despite me forgetting to book it until late this evening!

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Today I am grateful that I am always putting leftovers in the freezer, they came in handy tonight!

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Today I am grateful for lunch at my dad's, a catch up with him and my brother and cherry crumble to bring home!

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Today I am grateful for homemade pizza, well almost! I bought the bases ready made and just added our own toppings!

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Today I am grateful Becky had a great time at Hull Pride. She didn't get in until the early hours of this morning.

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Today I am grateful that Ellie's job interview went well, she'll find out about it later in the week but even getting to the interview stage these days is a fantastic achievement!

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Today I am grateful for hair dye! The roots coming through are gone and so are all the greys!

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Today I am grateful that Becky did some baking and it was good! Banana bread and brownies!

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Today I am grateful that my peppers are finally growing! I feel like I have been waiting forever!

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Today I am grateful for a nice night out with family. It wasn't a late one either.

What were you grateful for in July?

The Wednesday Hodgepodge #67

I hope you are all having a good week. It's Wednesday, which means it's time to join in with the Wednesday Hodgepodge with Joyce who blogs at From This Side of the Pond! Each week there are 6 questions, we answer and then link up. Simple!

1. What's something on your August calendar you're looking forward to? Or dreading if that's easier to answer.

August is always a busy month in our house because it’s the start of birthday season. We have Stu’s birthday in the middle of the month, Ellie’s at the end of August and then Becky’s right at the start of September. We have a few fun things planned which I’m really looking forward to but I also know it’s going to fly by and feel a little bit hectic. It always seems like once the birthdays start, the next few weeks are just one thing after another. It’s lovely having things to celebrate though, even if my bank account might not agree!

2. August 5th is National Oyster Day...do you partake? How do you feel about pearls?

Nope! I have never tried oysters and I don’t think I ever could. Every time I see one I just think they look like a slimy little blob and I can’t imagine actually putting one in my mouth. I’m usually quite good at trying new foods, but oysters have never tempted me. Pearls are a completely different story though. I think they are beautiful. They are classic, elegant and one of those things that never really go out of fashion. I don’t own any pearl jewellery and I don’t think I’ve ever actually worn pearls, but I do love how pretty they look. It’s quite funny really, that something so beautiful can come from something I have absolutely no interest in eating!

3. Tell us about a time when you felt like 'the world was your oyster'.

I think one of the times I really feel like the world is my oyster is actually now, with my girls being adults and starting to find their own way in life. For so many years, my life revolved around school runs, clubs, play dates, homework, appointments and making sure everyone else had what they needed and was where they needed to be. I loved that stage of life and wouldn’t change it for the world but when the girls started growing up, it felt like a whole new chapter was beginning. There is more time to think about what I want to do, places I would like to visit and things I want to try. It is exciting realising that life doesn’t stop changing just because your children get older. I think for a long time, so much of my focus was on creating memories for my family but now I’m also enjoying making memories for myself too. Life isn’t just about looking back, it’s also about looking ahead and being excited for what’s still to come!

4. Trip Advisor lists seven islands in the US that require no passport (for US citizens). If you're answering today from outside the US you'll still need to produce yours. An-y-way, have you been to any of the seven? Let's pretend you get an all expense paid trip to one this month...which one do you choose and why?

Catalina Island California ~ Martha's Vineyard Massachusetts ~ Mackinac Island Michigan ~ Key West Florida ~ South Padre Island Texas ~ Kauai Hawaii

I haven’t visited any of these islands. Before I saw this list, I didn’t even realise that some of these were islands and some I hadn't even heard of! I always end up learning something new from the Hodgepodge. If I was lucky enough to win an all-expenses paid trip, I think I would choose Kauai in Hawaii. It looks absolutely gorgeous! The scenery and beaches look like something straight out of a film!

5. Sylvia Plath is credited with the following - "August rain: the best of the summer gone, and the new fall not yet born. The odd uneven time." Agree or disagree? In other words, how do you feel about this month?

I don’t really agree with this quote. For me, August still feels very much like summer. Maybe that’s because I always connect August with the school summer holidays. There are days out happening, everyone is trying to make the most of the warmer weather and there is still plenty of time to enjoy being outside. Of course, there are little signs that autumn is on its way. I’ve noticed the evenings are starting to get darker earlier but I don’t think August is the month to say goodbye to summer just yet. For me, September is when things start to change. Once the children go back to school and routines begin again, that’s when it feels like summer is really coming to an end.

6. Insert your own random thought here.

Ugh! I feel like poop!! I am writing this on Sunday afternoon after catching the cold that Stu brought home from work and shared. I'm not properly ill, I just feel meh with a ton of snot and a rotten cough. Hopefully, by the time this post is published, I will be feeling much better and Becky too, she isn't feeling too great either.

Buying birthday presents was so much easier when they were little!

Now that my girls are adults, I have realised I really struggle when it comes to buying their birthday gifts. When they were little it was easy. They'd circle half the Argos catalogue, write a birthday list that was about three miles long and there would always be something they desperately wanted. Dolls, games, craft kits, DVDs, clothes, Lego and the latest craze that everyone was talking about at school. Now they're adults, everything has changed.

Every year, a few weeks before their birthdays, I ask the same question: what they want for their birthday, hoping that this time they'll come up with loads of ideas but the answer is usually the same, that they don't really need anything! That is not helpful at all. Now if they want something, they usually just buy it. They don't have to wait for birthdays any more because they're earning their own money but the downside for me is that it completely ruins my gift ideas.

The older the girls have got, the more practical they've become and so have I. Years ago I'd never have dreamed of buying socks as a birthday present because I would have thought it was far too boring. Now, they're one of the first things I think about because everybody needs socks. The same goes for toiletries. I can remember being younger and wondering why adults bought people shower gel and body lotion as presents because it seemed such a strange thing to give someone. Now I completely understand it and my girls do too. They love a shower gel set.

I could just give them money. I know they'd appreciate it. Who doesn't love a bit of extra money? but I've never really like giving money on its own because it feels like something is missing. Birthdays are supposed to involve wrapping paper and opening presents and wondering what's inside. Gift cards are a little better because at least they show you've thought about where they like shopping but even then, it still feels a bit boring.

Lately, I've started thinking that experience gifts are the answer. Instead of buying more things that might end up sitting on a shelf or being forgotten about, making memories sounds way better. Concert tickets, theatre tickets, an afternoon tea, a spa day or even a night away all sound like presents that will be remembered long after their birthday. I know the experience itself is a gift, but I still want them to have something to open on the day and I am thinking if I bought tickets for something, I could also wrap something silly that goes with the day, some sweets for the journey or maybe even a little travel bag with everything they'd need for the day. That way they'd still have something to open but the main gift would be the day out itself.

This is just another one of those little reminders that my girls really have grown up. I am starting to think it might get easier once they leave home because at least I could buy them something practical that they need, like a new hoover or a set of pans. lol Now I just need someone to tell me what everyone else buys their grown-up children because I can't be the only parent who gets completely stuck every single birthday!

What do you buy your adult children for their birthdays?