Friday, 6 November 2026

What I have loved this week! Week 45. #FridayFavourites

Happy Friday! I hope you've all had a good week. I've had a nice one and have a few things that have made me smile, so of course I am linking up with Erika and Andrea to share what I have loved this week!

What I have loved this week

Christmas food!
I know it's too early for some but yesterday I had some Christmas treats delivered with the grocery shop. Sweet mince pies and some Christmas cake bars and a couple of tubs of chocolate. I did think about putting those away for Christmas but they were never going to last that long, so why pretend? lol I do love seeing all the Christmas food appearing in the supermarkets. It's one of my favourite things about this time of year and I always end up buying things that I probably don't need, just because they're in festive packaging. Becky spoilt me yesterday by bringing me some things from the bakery. A couple of truffle sweet treats and a festive sausage roll. What makes it festive is that it has cranberry sauce in. They are my favourite at this time of year, along with the Greggs Festive Bake which I am yet to try this year. A Festive bake is a mix of cooked chicken, smoked ham hock, sweetcure bacon, soft cheese, and pork, sage and onion stuffing, all combined in a creamy sage and cranberry sauce and wrapped in puff pastry! Delicious!

Two blankets!
I was sitting here mid-week and it was chilly! My single blanket wasn't cutting it anymore, so I had to double up. I could have put the heating on of course but I really don't see the point when it's just me at home. Within half an hour of having the two blankets on me I was toasty and warm again!

This leaf!

A leaf

This might seem like a rather random thing to include but I spotted this lovely leaf just outside my back door and it made me smile. There are plenty of trees around where I live but none that close to my house, so I wasn't expecting to find it sitting there.

Big Brother UK!
I've been keeping up with Big Brother this year and what a series it's been. The final was last night so writing this yesterday afternoon I don't know who has won. I think they got things right with this year's housemates because there's been plenty of personalities, arguments, friendships, awkward conversations and more than enough drama to keep me entertained. You really couldn't predict what was going to happen next! I hope Twinks or Yasmin won and Rochelle didn't. She has been entertaining but went through that patch of being really mean!

Stranger Things Day!
It is today, the day Will Byers went missing in Hawkins in the show Stranger Things. I thought I'd managed to escape all the Stranger Things theories after the final episode but apparently not! There was a theory that started doing the rounds after the final episode. Fans were convinced that what we saw wasn't actually the real ending and that there was another episode waiting to be released. It was known as Conformity Gate. Now the theories are back and I didn't want to get sucked into watching and reading all about them but I have over the past week and they are so convincing. There probably won't be another episode but we can hope!

This nail polish remover!

nail polish remover

I have a little beauty find to share this week. It's one of those small things that makes a job so much easier and I wish I'd bought one sooner. It's a little tub with a sponge inside that is soaked in nail polish remover. You simply pop your finger into the tub, rub your nail against the sponge and the nail polish comes off. No messing about with cotton pads, no trying to hold a bottle while you soak a pad and no bits of cotton wool getting stuck to your nails. It's such a simple idea but it works really well.

Christmas gift buying!
I am finished buying Christmas gifts for my girls! Hooray! I put in a couple of big orders this week, got them some things they had asked for and a few surprises. I got some other people some gifts too and I am feeling pretty pleased with myself. I know what I'm getting my dad but I'm going to wait for the Black Friday sales and everyone else is easy to buy for. I might even get all the wrapping done before the first of December as I've even bought some wrapping paper.

What have you loved this week?

Friday Favorites

Thursday, 5 November 2026

Why I'm staying home this Bonfire Night!

Happy Bonfire Night if you celebrate it. If you are not from the UK you might not know what Bonfire Night is. It happens every year on the 5th of November and is also known as Guy Fawkes Night or Fireworks Night. Way back in 1605 a group of men planned to blow up the Houses of Parliament. One of them, Guy Fawkes was caught guarding barrels of gunpowder and the rest as they say is history. Now we celebrate with bonfires and fireworks. Lots of people will be wrapping up warm tonight and heading out watch the fireworks, I won't be one of them, I'll be staying home and turning the TV up on to drown out the noise.

Bonfire night

I'm not a fan of fireworks and I never have been. Everyone else looks up at the sky oohing and ahhing while I'm just waiting for the banging to stop so I can get on with my evening in peace. I thought today was the perfect time to share why I don't like fireworks.

I am totally blaming my school for my fear of fireworks. At the end of October as far back as I can remember the TV was wheeled out and us kids were shown public safety films. They were all about the dangers of fireworks. The type where sparks fly into people's eyes and fireworks explode in peoples hands. I know the teachers were only trying to keep us kids safe but they did their job a little too well with me! When I was in secondary school there was a huge drama about some boys putting lit fireworks through a teachers letterbox. I can't imagine how scared that teacher must have been and the boys thought it was all fun until they were caught.

For most of my childhood I lived on a farm in the middle of nowhere and there were no fireworks. They was just a thing I had heard about from friends who lived in big towns or and what I saw on TV on New Years Eve! The farmers were sensible enough to think about their animals. One of the things that makes me really sad about Bonfire Night is thinking that the animals must be so frightened by fireworks. Pets, animals on farms and wildlife don't know what's happening. They must think the world is ending with all the noise and flashes in the sky, the poor things. I also feel for all the pet owners who will be spending tonight trying to calm their pets.

One year when I was about eight years old my parents took my brother and me to a fireworks display and I hated every minute of it. I was more interested in working out how I could escape the noise and the crowds. It all ended with me screaming and crying so much that my mam took me back to the car. She was fuming and I still wasn't happy. Eek! At least I'd stopped crying. You'd think that after all these years I'd have got used to them but no I'm still the same!

Bonfire Night isn't just one night anymore, it seems to last for weeks. The fireworks started around here on the 10th of October this year. They are what inspired me to start writing this blog post. They sounded so close and it felt like the whole house was shaking. When the first couple went off I thought something awful had happened outside like a car crash but then realised what the noise was.

By the time the actual 5th of November comes around I'm already fed up with the bangs. I spend the evening listening out for the next one and muttering to myself not again. I don't think it would be so bad if everyone saved their fireworks for the actual night? I know people have different celebrations and there are organised displays on different dates but it doesn't need to go on for weeks!

I know the big bangs are the best part for some people but not for me. I know you can buy quieter fireworks, some are almost silent but I don't think many people think of using them. The worst are the ones that feel so deep that make the windows rattle. Every time one goes off I jump out of my skin. The thing I hate the most is not knowing when the next one is coming. I feel like I can't relax because I'm waiting for another massive bang to make me jump.

By now you've probably worked out that I'm not planning on rushing off to a fireworks display tonight. I don't want to stand outside in the cold and I definitely don't want to spend the evening jumping every time a firework goes off. If you are heading out tonight I hope you have a lovely time. Wrap up warm, stay safe and enjoy the display.

Are you a fan of fireworks, or would you rather stay at home like me?

Wednesday, 4 November 2026

The Wednesday Hodgepodge #80

Happy Wednesday! I hope you're all having a lovely week so far. It’s time for another round of the Wednesday Hodgepodge hosted by Joyce who blogs at From This Side of the Pond. Joyce gives us six questions, we share our answers and everyone links up! Simple!

The Wednesday Hodgepodge

1. Our November Hodgepodges always include a question related to gratitude. What is one small thing you're grateful for today?

I started writing this on Sunday afternoon and I am grateful for a lazy day at home. It's grey and damp outside, so it was nice to stay inside in the warm. It was extra cosy because we had the heating on. I didn't have much to do, so I spent my afternoon watching TV, blogging and the bonus was that I could stay in my Pjs. I do need to have a shower soon and change into a clean set. I love days like this when I can fully relax. It's not the most exciting thing to be grateful for but it's something I do appreciate.

2. Chrysanthemums-pansies-burning bush-ornamental cabbage-camellias...your favorite in an autumn garden? Would we find any of these in your yard/garden this year?

Out of those I'd probably choose chrysanthemums or pansies. They are such pretty flowers and come in so many colours. It's nice to see them at this time of year when it's so grey and gloomy outside. I am now thinking I should make more effort to have some in my garden during the autumn and winter. It would be nice to look out of the window and see some colour. I don't really have any flowers in my garden at this time of year, which seems like a shame considering I have so many in the spring and summer. At the moment I am thinking more about getting the garden tidied up for winter.

3. If you could clear out or organize one physical space or mental habit before the year ends, what would it be?

I'd like to stop saying yes to things when I would much rather say no. I'm terrible for this sometimes. I will agree to things because I don't want to disappoint people and don't want to cause a fuss. I have a little voice in my head saying just say no but rarely listen to it. I'd like to get better at putting myself first and not feeling guilty about saying no.

4. Brussel sprouts...love 'em or no thank you? If you said love 'em how do you like them prepared?

I love them now but hated them when I was a child. It's funny how our tastes change as we get older. I used to think it was a punishment if they were on my plate and I was convinced adults only pretended to like them. Now they're one of my favourite vegetables and I love them on a roast dinner. My family always complain when they find them on their plates at Christmas but it's tradition to have them. I know there are lots of different ways to cook them but I like them simple. I like them boiled until they're soft but not too mushy with a bit of butter, salt and pepper.

5. It's reassuring to know that____________________.

It's reassuring to know that I'm not the only one who struggles to find something to watch on TV. I have tons of channels, Disney+, Netflix and Amazon but can never find anything I want to watch. I'll scroll through the TV, complain that everything is rubbish and then put on an episode of something I've watched a million times before. My family all do the same too and don't get me started on choosing a film. By the time we've agreed on something to watch, we could have watched half of it! My fella has just gone upstairs to watch TV and I already know what will happen. He'll get comfy and spend the next half an hour scrolling through the channels trying to find something to watch. He'll probably end up watching something he's seen before too.

6. Insert your own random thought here.

While I was finishing writing this blog post, I had the Mexican Grand Prix on the TV. What a race it was! There were crashes, lots of overtaking, drama and Kimi Antonelli has become the youngest ever Formula 1 World Champion! How amazing is that! He's had a brilliant season. At just 20, he's already done something that so many drivers spend their entire careers trying to achieve. I cried hearing him cry as he finished the race! Bless him!

Wednesday Hodgepodge

Tuesday, 3 November 2026

365 Days Of Gratitude. In October I was grateful for...

I have seen many people on social media list something every day that they are grateful for and thought I would join in. I have done this for the whole of the last few of years and it has really made me realise that even on bad days I have something to be grateful for.

October was another blink and you missed it month! Things were busy here for the first half of the month but then calmed down! Phew! We had lots of fun things going on and I can't see things slowing down until the end of the year. Eek!

Today I am grateful for

In October I was grateful for:

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Today I am grateful that the tracksuit bottoms I ordered Stu were the right ones and the right size! Phew!

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Today I am grateful for a nice time with my dad today. He made us lunch, we had a good chat and a few giggles.

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Today I am grateful for a nice meal out!

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Today I am grateful for a day in front of the TV.

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Today I am grateful my dad rang me to remind me I was supposed to be at his today to help him out with some things on the computer. I had totally forgotten. Oops!

Sunset

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Today I am grateful I got all my jobs done quickly this morning so I could spend a few hours catching up on things on my laptop!

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Today I am grateful that I didn't have to go out in the rain and could stay home.

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Today I am grateful for my slow cooker, making tea so much easier!

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Today I am grateful that my dad made my lunch! Omelette sandwiches!

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Today I am grateful for Netflix and wrestling on the TV!

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Today I am grateful my girls have told me their plans for the week. I am not going to remember everything but at least I have a fair idea what's going on.

Big tomato

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Today I am grateful it wasn't as cold as it looked outside, I got some tidying up in the garden done.

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Today I am grateful for lunch from Greggs. The sweet mince pie roll is yummy!

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Today I am grateful that I finally got my Provisional Driving Licence through the post! They sure took their time to send it out.

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Today I am grateful the girls had a good time at Hull fair and Becky sent candy floss home with Ellie for me!

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Today I am grateful for a full refund from the DVLA. I don't understand how as I received my Provisional Driving Licence on Wednesday. lol I think it's because I paid for a first time one and they found record of my old paper one I lost when I was about 20 years old. I'm going to give them a ring on Monday.

Apple pie

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Today I am grateful to have some time on my laptop tonight to catch up on things.

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Today I am grateful for an afternoon in front of the TV watching films and a bit of Ted Lasso.

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Today I am grateful that Stu cooked tea! Pie and mash!

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Today I am grateful that Stu is on early finishes this week! Getting home half 45 minutes earlier makes such a difference.

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Today I am grateful for soup for tea. It seems ages since I had basic tinned soup. My family had a cheesy macaroni meal that I didn't want.

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Today I am grateful for my dad giving Ellie a lift to somewhere she needed to be and home again. He had errands to run so she went along with him as well. She had the best time.

Flowers

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Today I am grateful for a bag of apples off my dad! I made an apple pie!

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Today I am grateful I could stay inside where it was warm and dry!

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Today I am grateful for an unexpected evening with Becky. She has training at work next week so had tonight off!

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Today I am grateful that I got some more Christmas presents bought.

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Today I am grateful for a walk out into town with Becky while she got her hair cut.

Peppermint candle

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Today I am grateful my parcels were delivered. I have a Halloween costume ready and someone's birthday presents!

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Today I am grateful that mine and Ellie's hair dye went on well.

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Today I am grateful Ellie had a fab night out with her friends and that her make up and outfit worked out!

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Today I am grateful for a fun night out in town!

What were you grateful for in October?