A pretty ordinary Thursday - A day in my life!

It has been quite a while since I did a day in my life post. The last one was last March. I decided to do a Thursday as it's quite a busy day which doesn't involve me just doing the housework. There was a bit of excitement with the shopping being delivered and me cutting and dying my hair. All of this happened on the 21st of May.

I woke up just after half past six as Ellie was getting up to go to college. She had an English GCSE exam to do. I dozed off back to sleep and ended up waking just as Ellie was leaving to get her bus. I love not having to get up and rush about getting the kids ready for school. Becky wasn't even here and Ellie has her own little routine, so me getting up would just knock her off track. That's my story and I am sticking to it.

I had a look at what the weather was doing outside. It was pretty gloomy and it had been raining. It wasn't cold though. We're supposed to have some lovely weather over the next week or so. I predict a lot of moaning about me being too hot. I didn't bother with breakfast as I knew I was getting something delivered with the food shop that was coming later in the morning. I had a glass of juice, had a tidy around. Ellie must have been undecided about what she was going to wear this morning as there was a pile of clothes in the bathroom and shoes in the dining room.

I switched my laptop on just after 9am and wrote my Friday Favourites blog post. Some weeks I have a ton of things that I have loved. This week I was struggling with things to mention. It wasn't that it was a bad week, it was just I hadn't done anything exciting, tried many new things or watched anything different on the TV. 

I checked my emails and had a read of the news. I like to know what's going on in the world but sometimes it can be a lot. I then went and cleaned the fridge out, I like to clean it before I fill it up again and my food shop was being delivered.

I checked my Asda grocery order and couldn't make any sense of the substitutions they were sending. I still have no idea what the flowers were but they sent chocolate croissants which were better than the almond ones that I had ordered. It does say on my order that I had ordered cheese croissants. I didn't, I double checked. How odd!

I saw online that my order was 19 minutes away, so I didn't bother moving from my armchair. I had a scroll on TikTok until my grocery order was delivered. My food shop arrived just after 11am.

The most exciting things to be delivered with my grocery shop were the flowers and Ranch sauce! I finally got some.

I know it is a big thing in the US but it isn't here. Today was the first time I tasted it. To me, it tastes a bit like mayo, a bit like garlic sauce and with a hint of Tartar sauce. My taste buds were confused but very happy with it. Now tell me what you use Ranch for, what it goes well with. On the bottle it says pizza but there must be other things?

The other great thing delivered with the food shop was my lunch. Each week I order a meal deal from whatever supermarket I am ordering from. This time it cost me £3.74 for a sandwich, snack and drink.

I got Bacon & Ketchup sandwich, Tropicana orange juice and a tub of Pringles. It is a good deal. If I was to buy everything separately it would cost £6.05!!

I ate my lunch while watching some more of Grey's Anatomy and then got on with cutting and dying my hair. I started just after midday and finished just before half past two. It's a process! I dye my hair fully with bleach every 12 weeks and inbetween every 6 weeks, just top up the colour. This time was the big one. I bleached my hair to get rid of the dark roots and grey hair that I had coming through and then went and tidied the kitchen while that did its thing. 40 minutes later, I rinsed it off and then let it dry a little while I sorted the washing. I helped my hair along with drying and had a sit outside. The sun had started to come out, it was getting warm and I could see blue sky!

When my hair had dried a little, I popped the colour and let that do its thing. I had a tidy in the dining room, sorted more washing and debated doing a load to hang outside but decided against it and I am glad I did as it got quite grey again later on in the afternoon.

Stu rang while he was on his lunch break and we had a chat. I do love those little catch-ups that we have. I don't see him on a morning as he leaves for work early, so it's good to know he made it to work and is OK. By the time I had finished on the phone to Stu it was time to wash the red dye off.

I sat down just after half past two, got comfy and decided I was having a couple of hours of not moving. I started writing this blog post and decided to watch a movie and put Jurassic World Rebirth on. We have a free trial of Sky Cinema at the moment and this was one of the only movies I wanted to watch off it. At least I could download it instead of waiting for it to start on live TV. As I am writing this, I am about 30 minutes in and I haven't seen a dinosaur. lol I spent the next couple of hours commenting on blogs, playing Cooking Fever inbetween and Ellie got in at around half past four and we had a lovely catch up about her day.

When Stu rang at half past 5 to say he was on the bus, I started making tea. Today we were having pork and apple sausages, spicy potato wedges, mushrooms and peas. 

It was a nice easy meal to cook, the air fryer took care of the wedges and I cooked everything else on the hob. Just when everything was almost cooked Becky and her friend arrived home. I knew there was an extra mouth to feed, so all was good.

Stu came in from work and we all sat down to eat together, which is something that I really like. There will be a day when the girls leave home and it doesn't happen, so I really cherish it when it does. Ellie washed the dishes and then I moved to my armchair and that is where I spent the evening. I watched some of the news, the soaps and then a few episodes of Grey's Anatomy.

I ended up having a latish night, not going to bed until coming on for midnight because Becky and I lost track of time while we were chatting. It was nice to have a catch-up after not seeing her properly for a few days. I listened to half an hour of my audiobook in bed while scrolling on Facebook and then I went to sleep.

What do you do on an average day when you are at home?

The Wednesday Hodgepodge #59

I hope you are all having a good week. It's Wednesday, which means it's time to join in with the Wednesday Hodgepodge with Joyce who blogs at From This Side of the Pond! Each week there are 6 questions, we answer and then link up. Simple!

1. How would you define 'the good life'?

I found this really hard to answer because it’s one of those phrases that can mean a million different things to different people. I think for me the good life isn’t about having loads of money, fancy things or everything running perfectly all the time. That would all be nice but to me that is unrealistic. It’s much more about the real, everyday stuff. My family being happy and healthy is the main thing. If they are good, everything else in life feels easier to deal with. It’s about not having things stressing me out all the time and being able to sleep without spending the night tossing and turning. I feel at the moment we are living the good life. We have enough money to live comfortably, we all have good friends and people we can turn to for support and just enough of everything that we need. I think the good life isn’t anything big, it’s just feeling steady and happy with the life you’re living right now.

2. What's the most used app on your phone (and are you proud of that)?

TikTok is definitely the most used app on my phone. I wouldn’t say I’m proud of it but I’m not mortified about it either. I have learned so much from TikTok, found recipes, kept up with the news and have been introduced to a lot of new songs. I average about an hour a day, mainly at night before I go to sleep. I know it's not a good habit and I should stop but it's just one of those things. Most of the time, I still prefer using my laptop for anything online and according to my girls, that makes me old. They could live their lives just using their phones for everything but I like a bigger screen and a proper keyboard. TikTok and Instagram are the only apps I really use on my phone.

3. 'Every rose has it's thorn', 'everything's coming up roses', 'looking through rose-colored glasses', 'it's no bed of roses' or 'stop and smell the roses'...which rose idiom best relates to something in your life currently. Explain.

I’d probably say it’s a mix of "everything’s coming up roses" and "stop and smell the roses." Life feels good at the moment. My eldest is house hunting and getting ready to move out when the right place comes along and my youngest only has just over two weeks left at college. Things are moving in the right direction and there is a lot to feel positive about. My girls are making me proud, are growing up and I feel like I want to just press pause on life and enjoy this part of it for a little bit longer. In a few months our lives could be so different. Why do they have to grow up so fast?

4. How do you feel about floral flavorings in food or drink (rose, hibiscus, elderflower, lavender)?

No thank you! Floral flavourings in food and drinks are just wrong and are not for me. They feel a bit like someone’s made a drink and then accidentally added some of the garden to it. Elderflower is probably the only one I can almost enjoy but even then it depends on how strong it is, anything too perfumey and I find myself gagging. My girls love Parma Violets sweets which smell just like flowers and I refuse to have them in the house because just the smell makes me feel sick. Food and drinks should not taste like they’ve been wandering through a flower bed.

5. Over the course of your life what have you probably spent more time pondering than anything else?

Probably the things I’ve spent the most time overthinking are the tiny everyday decisions that somehow feel massive at the time, like what to eat, what to wear, whether I’ve replied to someone in the right tone or if I’ve left it too long and now it looks weird. That kind of stuff. It’s never anything dramatic but things that take up way more brain space than they should. As my girls would say, it's not that deep. lol

6. Insert your own random thought here.

I’ve just checked the weather forecast and it’s not exactly cheering me up. Over the next 12 days, we’ve got rain showing for about 10 of them. Ugh! I know, I know, in a couple of months we’ll probably be wishing for a bit of rain when everything turns dry and crispy but right now it just feels a bit unfair, especially after that week not so long ago with proper sunshine and blue skies. It’s like we got a tiny taste of nice weather and then it was straight back to grey skies and wet pavements.

Share our Lives - Emojis used most often!

It's that time of the month again to share some of my life and join in with the other Share Our Lives bloggers. This month the prompt is: Emojis used most often!

I am pretty simple when it comes to emojis. I’m not here using all those strange symbols or whatever the kids are doing this week. I’ve found my emoji comfort zone and I am sticking with it. I know there are hundreds of emojis, thousands probably. Little people, foods, flags, facial expressions I can't even explain but I stick to my favourites.

My girls, of course, have opinions. The way I use emojis is in such a mam way. I get told off for being blunt, for being dramatic and the big one is I get told off for reacting instead of replying properly. Emojis are efficient. Why type a full sentence when a tiny yellow face can do the job!

So here they are, my ten favourite emojis!

Beaming Face With Smiling Eyes!

This one is my default if I don’t know what to say but I want you to know I’m being friendly. It’s cheerful, safe and me saying yes, that’s fine, that sounds nice or smiling politely even if I’m not fully sure what’s going on. I use it when I’m being supportive but don’t have the energy for a paragraph, when I’m replying quickly or use it when I don’t want to come across as grumpy. The girls say it makes me look like I’m trying too hard to be cheerful. I say it makes me look approachable.

Thumbs Up!

This is the emoji that causes drama in my house. To me, a thumbs up means OK but to my girls a thumbs up means I’m annoyed but don’t want to argue or can't be bothered to reply! They say I am being passive aggressive when I am actually just busy, tired, cooking or watching something good on telly. hehehe

Face With Tears of Joy!

If something actually makes me laugh, properly laugh this is what you’re getting. This one gets used a lot. I like this one because it feels loud, it’s not a polite chuckle. I also use it to soften messages. You know when you’re gently taking the mick but don’t want it taken the wrong way? This steps in to save the day!

Smiling Face With Heart Eyes!

This emoji comes out when I’m feeling soft. Cute kids, cute dogs, good food, a nice outfit, a pretty sunset or someone doing something thoughtful. It’s affection in emoji form. I don’t use it lightly, so if you get one of these from me, it means I really like what I’m seeing. The girls say it’s embarrassing when I comment on their photos with it but I say it’s my job as their mam to be mildly embarrassing at all times.

Face Savouring Food!

I use this a lot! If there’s a nice meal involved, this emoji is not far behind! It says that it looks good without needing a full review. It’s also what I send when I’m hungry and trying to hint that food should appear soon.

Face With Rolling Eyes!

I am always rolling my eyes in real life. I don’t even have to explain myself when I use this one. People just know, I have two young adults, so I am always thinking it. When I read a ridiculous comment I am always tempted to use it but I always remind myself that you can't argue with stupid. This covers it all.

Enraged Face!

Everyone in my family knows this one means business. I don’t use it often, which is why it works. If the enraged face appears in a message, something or someone has pushed me past mild irritation. It’s the emoji version of that calm but angry voice that means trouble.

Red Heart!

This one is simple: love, care, comfort, support. I use it when I don’t know what to say but want someone to know I’m there. I use it with my girls. I use it with friends. I use it when words feel like too much. Sometimes a heart says more than any message can.

Loudly Crying Face!

Despite what you might think, I don’t use this one that much. I save it for the big stuff. Proper sadness, overwhelming moments when I see something that makes me feel sad. When this one appears, it means feelings are happening.

Woman Facepalming!

If you were to sum me up with one emoji this would be it. Forgetting things, losing things, doing something daft, watching someone else do something daft, realising I’ve just said the wrong thing, this covers it all.

I know I could branch out. I know there are newer, trendier emojis out there but these work for me. They say what I need them to say and get my point across without me having to overthink it.

What are your most used emojis?

I am linking up with:

Adrienne from Mom Life with Adrienne.

Dara from Not In Jersey.

Jen from Show me & Sweet tea.

Joanne from Slices of Life.

Our weekly meal plan! 8th - 14th June!! #MealPlanningMonday

Happy Monday! I hope you all had a good weekend. Ours was a quiet one. I spent most of it watching sport which I didn't think I would be doing. I had forgotten all about the F1 Monaco Grand Prix until my youngest reminded me on Saturday about the qualifiers and then we watched some of the International football friendly matches. It's all getting a bit exciting with the World Cup starting later this week but I am not impressed with the pitches, they are lumpy and bumpy and the goals are like something I'd have in the back garden. I hope they were just temporary ones.

Last week's meal plan went really well. We ate everything and the help yourself evening yesterday ended up being chicken casserole, dumplings and mashed potato, so that felt like a bonus meal. Becky ended up with sausages and mash as she had to be at work early to practice a fire drill. I can't imagine trying to get all the residents of the care home outside quickly! Eek! 

This week we are back using the Gousto recipe boxes and we have a couple of our favourite meals from them and a couple of new ones to try. I don't have much planned for this week, I think it's going to be a nice quiet one with not much going on which I am happy about.

On the menu this week we have:

Monday - Gousto meal - Hot Honey Bacon & Fried Egg Pancakes!

Breakfast for dinner always goes down well here and this is one of our favourites. The Abra-ca-Debora Buttermilk pancakes that come in the Gousto box are the best and they get served with crispy bacon, a fried egg and hot honey butter.

Tuesday - Gousto meal - One Pot Spicy Gumbo-Inspired Sausage Stew With Rice!

I’m quite excited to see what this one is all about as it's brand new to us. My family always love anything with sausage, so I think they will like it. It’s a one-pot meal with smoky sausage, peppers and loads of veg all simmered together in a rich tomato sauce with a bit of spice running through it. The best part is that everything cooks in the same pot, so there shouldn't be much washing up afterwards.

Wednesday - Gousto meal - Sesame Pork & Mushroom Udon Noodle Stir-Fry!

This is one of our favourite meals from Gousto and the meal that got Ellie to eat mushrooms a couple of years ago. She loves Udon noodles that much she ignored that the mushrooms were there and since then she has been obsessed with eating mushrooms in everything! This is pork mince, mushrooms and udon noodles coated in a tasty sesame sauce which is delicious!

Thursday - Loaded waffle fries!

We haven't had this in such a long time. It is everything we love in one tray! Crispy waffle fries topped with pizza sauce, onions, mushrooms, pepperoni and cheese and pepperoni, then baked until everything goes all gooey and golden. I follow this recipe but I add extra toppings.

Friday - A takeaway of some sort!

Friday night is an easy night for me. I don't cook and we order takeaway. Last week we ended up getting chip shop. Becky and I had a chip butty and Ellie had a Doner Kebab wrap. Who knows what we will have this week?

Saturday - Gousto meal - Sloppy Joe Loaded Fries With Smoky Ranch Dressing!

Crispy fries loaded with a rich beef topping and a smoky ranch-style dressing. This is a new one for us and I'm hoping it will be a good one! The only reason I was drawn to it was for the ranch dressing! We are a bit obsessed with it here now.

Sunday - A help yourself evening!

I have no plan for today and everyone can just help themselves to whatever they fancy. Last week we had the leftover pizza for lunch and as it was a grey and gloomy day, I made chicken casserole with dumplings and mash.

What are you eating this week?